Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
Young Pianist Stuns Crowd with Beautiful Rendition of Queen’s “Bohemian Rhapsody”
Expectations are high for the famous song “Bohemian Rhapsody.” Many people think that performing this anthem is difficult. However, Cole Lam, a young pianist, demonstrated that skill has no age restrictions.
The 12-year-old prodigy Cole was about to take the world by surprise with a musical voyage that would begin at London’s busy St. Pancras International Station. Two adults approached him as he was getting ready to play the piano; they had no idea how incredible the skill they were about to witness would be.
Cole played the first few notes of “Bohemian Rhapsody” with a bashful smile. It seemed as though everything around him vanished and time stopped still. His fingers moved fluidly over the keys, striking each note with feeling and accuracy.
It was clear from watching Cole perform that he had a strong emotional connection to the song. Everyone who had the honor of witnessing him perform was enthralled by his obvious passion and commitment.
Cole can play more than just the piano, though. In addition, he plays the clarinet and guitar with excellence, demonstrating his versatility and passion for music. His impressive portfolio, which demonstrates his aptitude and perseverance, is impressive even at the age of twelve.
He charmed the audience with his performance. Cole’s performance served as a reminder of the influence that music has on our lives. He is an inspiration to his classmates and aspiring musicians alike because, despite his youth, he has already attained remarkable success.
Cole’s performance is incredibly captivating to see. His ability is unbounded, and as long as he continues to develop it, we can only speculate about the amazing heights he may achieve.
So take a seat, unwind, and get ready to be astounded by Cole’s magnificent performance of “Bohemian Rhapsody” at the London station. Tell your friends and family about this amazing performance on Facebook so they may experience the magic for themselves.
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