How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
Elvis Presley’s Grandson Takes the Stage and Shows His Talent
In a riveting display of talent on “The Voice”, Dakota Striplin made a bold claim that sent shockwaves through the competition: he hinted at being the descendant of the legendary Elvis Presley. Commanding the stage with charisma and skill, Dakota enraptured both judges and audience alike with a rendition of “Love Me Tender” that echoed the spirit of the King himself. Armed only with his guitar, he delivered a performance that was both haunting and electrifying.
The first judge, visibly moved by Dakota’s ethereal vocals, swiveled her chair in a gesture of admiration, her hand resting over her heart. It didn’t take long for another judge to follow suit, drawn in by Dakota’s magnetic presence and undeniable talent, eager to unravel the mystery behind this mesmerizing performance.
Following his spellbinding act, the judges couldn’t help but inquire about Dakota’s choice of song and the inspiration behind it. With heartfelt sincerity, Dakota shared anecdotes of his family’s connection to Elvis, recounting his grandmother’s fond memories of attending the King’s concerts. He even injected a bit of humor into the conversation, playfully hinting at a familial resemblance to the rock and roll icon that left the judges chuckling.
But Dakota didn’t stop there, he tantalized the panel with hints of other intriguing facets of his lineage, alluding to a recent DNA revelation that cast doubt on his established ancestry and hinted at a potential link to Elvis Presley himself.
Embark on a journey through Dakota Striplin’s captivating performance and enigmatic backstory by tuning in to the full video below.
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