My Wife Excluded Me from Her Birthday Party – I Was Shocked to Find Out Why

I thought my wife, Jenna, and I shared everything, including our deepest secrets. But when she excluded me from her birthday party, I realized I’d been left out of more than just one celebration. What hurt the most was discovering why.

It wasn’t just the party that stung. It was what it revealed about my wife and our marriage.

I’d spent a year saving for her dream gift, only to find out that I wasn’t enough for her. Looking back, the signs had always been there. I guess I just never wanted to see them.

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A man looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

Jenna and I were introduced by our families eight years ago. They thought we’d be a great match, and they were right. At least in the beginning.

She was warm, outgoing, and had this infectious energy that made everyone gravitate toward her. I was quieter and more practical, but I found her enthusiasm refreshing. We went on a few dates, and soon enough, I was hooked.

Of course, she wasn’t perfect. No one is.

I noticed early on that she had a bit of a materialistic streak.

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A woman sitting in her house | Source: Midjourney

She loved fancy dinners, designer handbags, and the kind of vacations that made Instagram feeds look like travel brochures.

At the time, I chalked it up to her appreciating the finer things in life. Besides, I wasn’t exactly living extravagantly, but I wasn’t struggling either.

I thought we could balance each other out.

We got married five years ago, and for a while, everything seemed great. I loved how Jenna lit up a room and could talk to anyone and make them feel like the most important person in the world.

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A close-up shot of a woman | Source: Midjourney

I worked a steady job as a financial consultant, and while I wasn’t raking in millions, I took pride in providing a stable life for us.

But there were moments, small, nagging moments, that hinted things weren’t as perfect as they seemed.

I remember one time I gave her a custom photo album for our anniversary, filled with pictures of our favorite memories. She smiled and thanked me, but later, I overheard her on the phone with a friend, saying, “Yeah, it’s sweet, but I was kind of hoping for a spa weekend or something.”

A woman using her phone | Source: Midjourney

A woman using her phone | Source: Midjourney

It hurt, but I convinced myself it didn’t mean anything. Jenna had always been expressive, and I figured she was just venting.

Still, the little incidents piled up.

She’d casually mention how her friend’s husband surprised her with diamond earrings “just because” or how another friend’s partner whisked her away for a luxury retreat.

“Can you believe how lucky they are?” she’d say, with a wistful look I tried not to take personally.

But deep down, I started to feel like I was falling short.

A man talking to his wife | Source: Midjourney

A man talking to his wife | Source: Midjourney

I didn’t have the kind of job that allowed for extravagant gifts or surprise getaways, but I made up for it with thoughtfulness. At least, I thought I did.

I’d spend hours planning little surprises for her, like cooking her favorite meals after a long day or leaving sweet notes in her work bag.

I hoped those gestures meant more than a price tag.

Then came the conversations that left me questioning myself.

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A man standing in the dark | Source: Midjourney

Once, when her friends came over, I overheard them talking.

“So, what did Lucas spoil you with this time?” one of her friends asked.

I heard Jenna laugh sheepishly.

“Oh, you know Lucas,” she began. “He’s more about sentiment than splurging.”

Her tone wasn’t outright dismissive, but it wasn’t exactly proud either.

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A woman sitting in the dark | Source: Midjourney

Looking back, I should’ve seen it coming. I should’ve realized that Jenna’s world was one where appearances mattered. A world where being “just enough” was never going to cut it.

But I loved her, and I believed that love was enough to bridge the gap between our differences.

I was wrong.

So wrong.

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A man standing in his house | Source: Midjourney

A few weeks ago, Jenna surprised me with an announcement that caught me off guard.

“I’m not celebrating my birthday this year,” she said over dinner. “I’m getting older, and honestly, what’s there to celebrate?”

I paused mid-bite and stared at her. Jenna loved birthdays. She’d always meticulously plan a theme, coordinate outfits, and ensure the guest list was perfect. The idea of her skipping the occasion altogether felt off.

“Are you sure?” I asked, keeping my tone light. “You’ve always loved celebrating.”

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A man talking to his wife | Source: Midjourney

She shrugged. “I just don’t feel like it this year. Maybe next time.”

Her response didn’t sit well with me, but I didn’t push. Everyone has their moments, and I figured turning 35 left her feeling reflective or even self-conscious.

Still, I wanted to do something special for her.

Jenna loved jewelry but rarely bought any for herself, always saying it was too indulgent. So, for the past year, I’d been quietly saving up for a pair of diamond earrings I knew she’d adore.

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A pair of earrings | Source: Pexels

Honestly, saving up hadn’t been easy. I’d skipped lunches out, passed on new clothes, and even took on extra work during the holidays.

The earrings I’d bought were beautiful and I couldn’t wait to surprise her. I imagined giving them to her during a quiet dinner at home. I thought it would be perfect.

But everything changed a few days before her birthday.

I was at the grocery store picking up some last-minute essentials when I ran into Mark, one of Jenna’s coworkers.

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Shopping carts at a supermarket | Source: Pexels

We exchanged pleasantries and talked about the usual stuff until he casually mentioned something that made my heart drop.

“Okay, see ya at Jenna’s birthday party on Friday!” he said with a grin.

“Party?” I asked. I had no idea what he was talking about.

“Yeah, her birthday party. You know about it, right?”

“Oh, yeah, the party!” I chuckled. “Same place as last time, right? I keep mixing things up.”

“No, it’s at that new restaurant,” Mark said. “Le Bijou, downtown. Friday at 7. All friends and family are coming!”

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A man in a supermarket | Source: Pexels

I forced a laugh, playing it off. “Oh, right, of course. Just slipped my mind for a second. Been swamped with work lately.”

Mark nodded. “Well, it should be fun. Jenna always throws a great party.”

I managed a smile and a quick goodbye before turning the cart down the next aisle.

Le Bijou was a new upscale restaurant downtown. It required booking weeks in advance and a price tag to match.

What bothered me the most was that my wife hadn’t mentioned a word about that party.

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A woman standing in her house | Source: Midjourney

For the next two days, I tried to rationalize what Mark had said. Maybe he was mistaken. Maybe it was a surprise party, and Jenna didn’t want me to find out.

But deep down, I knew the truth. She’d excluded me on purpose.

Why wouldn’t she want me there? I thought. Was she embarrassed? Angry? Or had I done something to make her feel like I didn’t belong by her side?

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A man looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

The questions ate away at me, but I couldn’t bring myself to ask Jenna outright.

Instead, I decided to find out. I told myself I wasn’t going to cause a scene and that I just needed answers. I decided to go to the party to see why she didn’t want me there.

On the day of her birthday, she seemed quite calm.

“I’m just going out with some friends for dinner tonight,” she said over breakfast, sipping her coffee. “Nothing fancy, just a small gathering.”

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A woman smiling at the breakfast table | Source: Midjourney

“Oh, really? I thought we’d have dinner at home together,” I said. “I was planning to bake your favorite cookies.”

“That’s so sweet of you, Lucas,” she smiled. “It’s just that Alex suggested we should go out for dinner, and I didn’t want to say no. We’ll have dinner together tomorrow, okay? I promise.”

“Alright,” I said, trying to hide the disappointment.

She didn’t mention Le Bijou or anything remotely like the extravagant affair Mark had described. A quiet dinner with friends was nothing to raise suspicion over. At least not until I arrived at the restaurant.

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A table in a restaurant | Source: Pexels

When I walked into Le Bijou, it was as if I’d stepped into a different world. The room glittered with wealth. Sparkling gowns, tailored suits, and the unmistakable hum of privilege.

In the center of it all was Jenna. Her smile was as dazzling as the chandelier above her, but it faded the moment she saw me.

I could see panic written all over her face as she excused herself and walked toward me.

“What are you doing here?” she asked in a low, hurried whisper.

A woman talking to her husband | Source: Midjourney

A woman talking to her husband | Source: Midjourney

“I came to celebrate your birthday,” I replied. “But it looks like you’re having a ball with your friends. You said you didn’t want to celebrate your birthday this year, but…”

Her face flushed as she looked around. “Lucas, it’s not like that. This is just a casual dinner. I—”

“Mark called it a birthday party when I met him a few days ago,” I said. “This doesn’t look like a casual dinner.”

Her shoulders sagged slightly, and she glanced back at the table where her friends were watching us with open curiosity.

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A woman looking away while talking to her husband | Source: Midjourney

“Look,” she said, lowering her voice even further. “I excluded you from the party because… well, it’s complicated.”

“Complicated how?”

“It’s just that all my friends’ husbands always get them these extravagant gifts, and you… well, you don’t. I didn’t want them to compare. I didn’t want them to know that I never get any expensive gifts.”

I stared at her with wide eyes.

“So, you’re embarrassed of me?” I asked. “You’re embarrassed your husband doesn’t earn enough to spoil you with presents?”

Her silence was answer enough.

Taking a deep breath, I pulled the small box from my pocket and handed it to her.

“Open it,” I said.

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A woman holding a gift box | Source: Pexels

Her eyes widened slightly as she unwrapped it, revealing the diamond earrings inside. For a moment, I saw the Jenna I fell in love with. The one who lit up over little surprises and thoughtful gestures.

“Oh my God, Lucas,” she gasped, holding the earrings up for her friends to admire. “These are beautiful!”

She called her friends over, basking in their admiration as if the entire evening had suddenly transformed into a celebration of us.

“Lucas, you have to stay,” she said, grabbing my hand. “Come on, have a drink, let me get you some food.”

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A woman looking back | Source: Midjourney

But I couldn’t. Something inside me had cracked, and no amount of praise or attention from her friends could fix it.

“I can’t stay,” I said. “The second part of your gift is waiting for you at home.”

Her eyes lit up with excitement. “What is it? Tell me!”

“You’ll see,” I said, pressing a quick kiss to her cheek before walking away. I didn’t look back.

When Jenna returned home later that night, she found the house dark and eerily quiet.

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A woman in a hallway | Source: Midjourney

The only light came from the kitchen, where a single envelope sat on the table. I’d left a letter for her.

Dear Jenna,

I spent a year saving for those earrings because I wanted you to feel loved, cherished, and appreciated. You always said you loved jewelry but never treated yourself, so I wanted to give you something special. Something to show you how much you mean to me.

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A woman reading a letter | Source: Midjourney

But tonight, I realized that no matter how much I give, it will never be enough. Hearing you say you were embarrassed of me, of us, broke something inside me. I’ve always believed love was about more than material things, but you’ve made it clear that appearances and comparisons matter more.

So, here’s the second part of your gift: FREEDOM. For both of us.

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A close-up shot of a handwritten note | Source: Pexels

I’m filing for divorce. I deserve someone who values me for who I am, not for what I can buy. And you deserve someone who can give you the lifestyle you clearly want.

Please don’t contact me. This is goodbye.

—Lucas

Over the next few days, Jenna called me repeatedly, leaving tearful messages begging for forgiveness. She said she’d made a mistake, that she didn’t mean what she said, and that she wanted to fix things.

But I was done. I sent her one final text.

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A man using his phone | Source: Pexels

Don’t contact me again. It’s over.

Then I blocked her number and moved forward with the divorce.

Now, months later, I feel lighter, as if a weight I didn’t even know I was carrying has been lifted. Losing Jenna was painful, but knowing I’ll never have to endure her constant comparisons or unspoken disappointment again?

That’s a relief I can’t put into words.

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

Old Janitor Gives His Jacket to a Freezing Girl on the Street

An old street cleaner gives his only coat to a freezing girl, thinking nothing of it — until she returns seven years later, successful and unrecognizable, holding the same coat…and a life-changing surprise.

At sixty years old, James had settled into a life of quiet repetition. Every morning before the city fully woke, he was already out on the streets, broom in hand, sweeping away the evidence of yesterday — cigarette butts, fallen leaves, crumpled receipts, and the occasional coffee cup someone had carelessly discarded.

In the evenings, he did it all over again.

An old man sweeping the streets in the morning | Source: Midjourney

An old man sweeping the streets in the morning | Source: Midjourney

The shop owners along his route knew him, though few really knew him. To some, he was just Old James, the street cleaner who worked like clockwork, his presence as familiar as the buildings themselves.

The baker on the corner sometimes gave him a roll at the end of the day. The café owner would nod in greeting. Others barely acknowledged him, treating him like part of the city infrastructure; a lamppost with a broom.

James didn’t mind. At least, that’s what he told himself.

An old man looks thoughtful while sitting on a bench | Source: Midjourney

An old man looks thoughtful while sitting on a bench | Source: Midjourney

His world was small. A single-room apartment with peeling wallpaper and a radiator that only worked when it wanted to. No family, no visitors, no pets. Just him, his broom, and the endless rhythm of work.

Then came that winter.

The cold had settled in early, wrapping the city in an icy grip. Snow piled up along the sidewalks, the wind cut like a blade, and even James, wrapped in his old, frayed jacket, felt it sink deep into his bones.

A back-view of an old man walking on a sidewalk in snowfall | Source: Pexels

A back-view of an old man walking on a sidewalk in snowfall | Source: Pexels

That’s when he saw her.

She couldn’t have been older than fourteen: small, thin, with tangled dark hair that half-covered her face. She moved quickly, her arms wrapped around herself, as if trying to shrink against the cold. But what struck James most — what made him pause, mid-sweep — was what she was wearing.

Just a sweater.

No coat. No gloves. No scarf.

James frowned, lowering his broom. That’s not right.

“Child!” he called out, his voice gruff from years of talking to no one.

The girl stiffened but didn’t turn immediately.

A young girl in a thin sweater is standing in the cold | Source: Midjourney

A young girl in a thin sweater is standing in the cold | Source: Midjourney

James took a few steps closer, his boots crunching against the frost-covered pavement. “Why are you only wearing a thin sweater?”

She finally turned, her expression guarded. Up close, he could see that her lips were slightly blue, her hands curled into fists against the cold.

She shrugged, avoiding his gaze. “It’s all I have.”

James inhaled sharply. Something heavy settled in his chest.

Without thinking, he unbuttoned his jacket and pulled it off, stepping forward to drape it over her small shoulders.

An old man unbuttons his jacket while standing in the cold outside | Source: Midjourney

An old man unbuttons his jacket while standing in the cold outside | Source: Midjourney

The girl’s eyes went wide. “Oh—I can’t—”

“Yes, you can,” James cut in, his voice firm. “And you will. It’s way too cold to be out here like that.”

She hesitated, gripping the jacket with small, trembling fingers. The fabric hung loose on her, swallowing her up, but she didn’t let go.

A slow, shy smile broke across her face. “Thank you, Mr. Dumbledore.”

James blinked. “What?”

She giggled, adjusting the jacket around herself. “You look like Professor Dumbledore from ‘Harry Potter’,” she explained.

A smiling young girl wearing a warm winter jacket in icy cold weather | Source: Midjourney

A smiling young girl wearing a warm winter jacket in icy cold weather | Source: Midjourney

James huffed out a laugh, shaking his head. “Is that so?”

She nodded, grinning now. “You just need a wand.”

James smirked. “Don’t have one of those, but I’m glad my jacket could come in handy.”

The girl looked down at herself, running her hands over the thick fabric. When she looked back up, there was something different in her eyes, something deeper than gratitude.

“You’re really kind,” she murmured.

James waved her off with a scoff. “You’re welcome, child. Now go on, get somewhere warm.”

An old man smiles while standing on the street and looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

An old man smiles while standing on the street and looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

She hesitated for half a second, then gave him a small, quick wave before turning and walking away.

James stood there, watching her disappear into the crowd. The wind cut through his sweater now, making his joints ache, but he barely noticed.

He never saw her again.

Not for seven years.

The city had changed in that time. New buildings had gone up, old ones had been replaced. The bakery he used to sweep in front of had become a trendy café with overpriced lattes.

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The exterior of a café on the street during nighttime | Source: Pexels

The streets were busier, filled with younger faces. But James was still there, still sweeping, still following the same quiet routine.

Until one afternoon.

He was sweeping the same street corner when he felt a light tap on his shoulder.

“Professor Dumbledore?”

The voice was warm, teasing. Familiar.

James turned, frowning slightly.

Standing before him was a young woman; tall, poised, with bright eyes and an easy smile.

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A young woman with a pleasant smile is looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

In her hands, she held an old, worn-out jacket. His jacket. The pockets were stuffed with something bulky.

James swallowed hard, his throat suddenly tight.

“Child?” he whispered softly.

And just like that, the past came rushing back.

James stood frozen, his broom slack in his grip.

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A startled old man holding a sweeping brush while standing on the road | Source: Midjourney

The young woman in front of him — poised, confident, her coat buttoned neatly over a crisp blouse — held his old, worn-out jacket in her hands.

It didn’t make sense.

She looked nothing like the shivering girl he had draped it over all those years ago.

But those eyes.

Those were the same. Bright. Grateful. Knowing.

“Child?” His voice came out hoarse, barely above a whisper.

The woman grinned. “You still call me that?” She shook her head fondly. “It’s been seven years, James.”

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A young woman grins while looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

Hearing his name from her mouth startled him. How did she even remember?

She shifted slightly, glancing down at the jacket before meeting his eyes again. “I was hoping I’d find you here. You never left this street, did you?”

James cleared his throat, forcing himself to snap out of his daze. He straightened up, gripping his broom tighter. “Not much reason to leave.”

She studied him for a moment, then smiled. “Do you have time for a coffee? There’s a place right around the corner.”

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A cozy café interior with an open window | Source: Pexels

James hesitated. He couldn’t remember the last time someone had invited him anywhere. His life followed a routine — wake up, sweep, eat, sleep. Coffee with a stranger, even one who clearly knew him, wasn’t in the schedule.

But then he looked at the jacket in her hands.

His jacket.

And he nodded.

The café was warm, filled with the scent of roasted beans and fresh pastries. It was the kind of place James rarely stepped into — too polished, too expensive.

She ordered two coffees before he could protest. “Black, right?” she asked, raising a brow.

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A photo showing two cups of coffee on a table | Source: Pexels

James blinked. “How’d you—”

“You seem like the type,” she said with a knowing smile.

They took a seat by the window. The heat from the café’s radiator seeped into James’ cold bones, making him realize just how much winter had settled into him over the years.

She slid the jacket across the table. “I wanted to return this.”

James shook his head. “I gave it to you.”

“I know,” she said softly, running her fingers over the worn fabric. “But I needed you to know what it meant.”

A young woman looks at someone with understanding and warmth | Source: Midjourney

A young woman looks at someone with understanding and warmth | Source: Midjourney

James tilted his head, waiting.

She exhaled slowly. “Seven years ago, I was homeless.”

James didn’t react, but something in his chest twisted.

“I had run away from a shelter. It wasn’t… a good place.” She hesitated, then continued, “That night was the coldest I had ever been in my life. I was trying to convince myself I’d be fine. That I didn’t need anyone. Then you stopped me.”

James shifted in his seat. “It was just a jacket.”

She smiled gently. “No. It wasn’t.”

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A closeup shot of a smiling young woman in a café | Source: Midjourney

She wrapped her hands around her coffee cup, the steam curling into the air. “You didn’t just give me a coat. You made me feel… seen. Like I mattered. No one had done that in a long time.”

James was quiet. He didn’t know what to say to that.

An old man is sitting in a café and looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

An old man is sitting in a café and looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

She continued, her voice steady. “That night, because of you, I went back to the shelter. I told myself I’d try one more time. I started studying and working any job I could find. I became a cashier at a small store, and the owner — he saw something in me. He promoted me to manager. Then, when I was nineteen, he made me director of his entire grocery chain.”

James let out a low whistle. “That’s… a lot.”

She laughed. “Yeah, it was.” She tapped the old jacket. “But I never forgot where it started.”

An old worn-out jacket lying on a table in a café | Source: Midjourney

An old worn-out jacket lying on a table in a café | Source: Midjourney

James stared at the jacket, his weathered hands resting on the table. “Didn’t expect all that from just a jacket.”

“It wasn’t just the jacket.” She leaned forward. “It was you.

James swallowed hard. He wasn’t used to this, to being looked at like he had done something important.

He cleared his throat, glancing away. “Well, I’m glad you’re doing well.”

An old man looks away while sitting in a café | Source: Midjourney

An old man looks away while sitting in a café | Source: Midjourney

They talked a little longer — about small things. About how the city had changed. About how James still hated how people littered even when there was a trash can two feet away. She laughed at that, and James realized he liked the sound.

Finally, she stood up. “I won’t keep you.”

James followed her to the door. She turned back one last time. “You changed my life, James. I hope you know that.”

Then she was gone.

A young woman with a bright smile is standing outside and looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

A young woman with a bright smile is standing outside and looking at someone | Source: Midjourney

That evening, James sat in his tiny apartment, the jacket lying in front of him. Suddenly, he noticed the bulky pockets and decided to check what they were hiding.

His hands stilled. Inside were stacks of crisp hundred-dollar bills. His breath caught as he counted, his mind struggling to process.

Fifty thousand dollars.

His heart pounded, his thoughts racing. He had never seen this much cash in his life.

What was he supposed to do with it?

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A closeup shot of 100 Dollar Bills | Source: Pexels

He could move somewhere better. Buy a real winter coat instead of the old patched-up thing he had now. Maybe even stop working — just rest for once in his life.

But then he thought of her.

Of a fourteen-year-old girl walking in the snow with nothing but a sweater.

And James made up his mind.

The next few weeks were the busiest James had ever been.

He visited every shelter in the city, buying jackets, scarves, gloves — whatever the kids needed. He bought toys, books, and warm blankets.

A collection of warm clothing and children's toys | Source: Midjourney

A collection of warm clothing and children’s toys | Source: Midjourney

Every time he handed something out, he saw their eyes light up.

He saw her in each of them.

James never told anyone where the money had come from. He didn’t need to.

One cold evening, he stood outside a shelter, watching a group of kids try on their new coats and jackets, their laughter ringing through the icy air.

A small boy tugged on his sleeve. “Sir, why are you doing this?”

James smiled.

“Just an old man with an extra jacket.”

And for the first time in a long time, he felt warm.

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An old man smiles while standing on the street | Source: Midjourney

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