My son, Michael, surprised me with a cottage in the countryside, but when we got there, I realized it was all a trick. After a while, I discovered the real reason why he did this, and I still can’t forgive him. What would you do?
Hello! My name is Richard, and I’m 68 years old. I never thought I’d be asking strangers for advice, but here I am. I need some outside perspective on this.
For some background: I’ve been a single dad for most of my adult life. My wife, Emma, passed away from cancer when our son, Michael (currently 35 years old), was just ten years old.
It was a difficult time for both of us, but we managed to pull through together.
Since then, it’s been just the two of us against the world. I did my best to be both mother and father to him, working hard to give him every opportunity I could.
Growing up, Michael was a good kid. He had his moments of rebellion, sure, but overall, he was kind, hardworking, and seemed to have a good head on his shoulders.
He did well in school, went to college on a partial scholarship, and landed a good job in finance after graduation.
I’ve always been immensely proud of him, watching him grow into what I thought was a successful adult.
We remained close even after he moved out, talking on the phone regularly and having dinner together at least once a week.
That’s why what happened over a year ago came as such a shock.
It was a Tuesday evening when Michael came to my house, brimming with excitement. “Dad,” he said, “I’ve got amazing news! I bought you a cottage in the countryside!”
“A cottage? Michael, what are you talking about?“
“It’s perfect, Dad. It’s peaceful, serene, and just what you need. You’re going to love it!”
I was taken aback. Move to a cottage far from here? That seemed like too much. “Michael, you didn’t have to do that. I’m perfectly happy here.”
But he insisted! “No, Dad, you deserve it. The house you’re in now is TOO BIG FOR YOU ALONE. It’s time for a change. Trust me, this is going to be great for you.”
I have to admit, I was skeptical. The house I was living in had been our family home for over 30 years. It was where Michael grew up, where Emma and I had built our life together.
But my son seemed so excited, so sure that this was the right move. And I trusted him completely. After all, we’d always been honest with each other.
So, against my better judgment, I agreed to move and sell my house.
The next few days, I was packing and preparing to leave, while Michael handled most of the details. He assured me that everything was taken care of.
He was being so helpful that I pushed aside my lingering doubts.
Finally, the day came for us to drive to my new home. As we got in the car, Michael was chatting away about all the amenities this new place had.
But as we drove further and further from the city, I started feeling uneasy. The scenery became more and more desolate. It wasn’t woodsy or hillside.
Our familiar neighbor and the bustling streets of the city were gone and all that was left were empty, ugly fields, and even an abandoned farm.
The cottages nearby, which Michael knew I had admired and considered buying when his mother was alive, were cozy, homey places, surrounded by nature. This was the opposite.
“Michael,” I wondered, “are you sure we’re going the right way? This doesn’t look like cottage country to me.”
He assured me we were on the right track, but I noticed he wouldn’t quite meet my eyes.
After about another hour of driving, we turned onto a long, winding driveway. At the end of it stood a large, boring building.
My heart sank as I read the sign: “Sunset Haven.”
This wasn’t a cottage. It was a nursing home.
I turned to Michael, trying to quell my emotions. “What is this? What’s going on?”
“Dad,” he said, but couldn’t even look me in the eyes. “I’m sorry. I know I said it was a cottage, but… this is better for you. You’ll be taken care of here.”
“Taken care of? I don’t need to be taken care of! I’m perfectly capable of living on my own. Why would you lie to me?“
“Dad, please.” Michael finally turned to me, and his eyes were pleading. “You’ve been forgetting things lately. I’m worried about you living alone. This place has great facilities, and there will always be someone around if you need help.”
“Forgetting things? Everyone forgets things sometimes!” I yelled, and angry tears fell from my eyes. “This isn’t right, Michael. Take me home right now.”
Michael shook his head and dropped the real bombshell of the day. “I can’t do that, Dad. I’ve… I’ve already sold the house.”
I felt like the ground had disappeared from under me. I knew I had agreed to sell, but I had all the time in the world. I wanted to meet the new owners, pick a nice family, and hell, tell them exactly how to care for the old Elm tree in the yard.
How could he have sold it without my knowledge or consent?
I demanded answers, but Michael was evasive. He mentioned something about having power of attorney and doing what was best for me.
I shut down after that, and the next few hours were a blur.
Somehow, I ended up checked into Sunset Haven and was led to a small room with a narrow bed and a window overlooking a parking lot.
The walls were a sickly shade of beige, and the air smelled of disinfectant and old people.
My old home retained the scent of my wife’s cinnamon coffee cake, and I never changed her decor choices. My only upgrades were new appliances when needed, and Michael had given me an Alexa.
But now, this sad, clinical place was my new home.
I couldn’t do anything about it, either. I thought about Michael’s words while I spent the next few days in shock and anger. Was I so far gone that I forgot everything?
Was this the right thing? Had I caused Michael harm? Had I been diagnosed with dementia or something?
I couldn’t imagine any of that, but Michael’s parting look of guilt and concern left me dubious.
The staff at Sunset Haven were kind enough, and they tried to engage me in activities to make me feel welcome. But I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was wrong.
It was during an afternoon of more stewing in my feelings that I overheard a conversation that made everything even worse.
I was sitting in the common room, pretending to read a magazine, when I heard two nurses talking in hushed tones nearby.
“Poor Mr. Johnson,” one of them said. “Did you hear about his son?”
“No, what happened?”
“Apparently, he had some pretty big gambling debts. That’s why he sold his dad’s house and put him in here.”
I felt like I’d been punched in the gut. Gambling debts? Was that the real reason behind all of this? Had my son sold me out, quite literally, to cover his own mistakes?
I was even more devastated.
The son I’d raised, the boy I thought I knew better than anyone, had discarded me for selfish reasons.
I thought back to all the times I’d helped him out of tight spots, all the sacrifices I’d made to give him a good life.
Luckily, fate intervened in the form of an old friend. Jack, a lawyer I’d known for years, came to Sunset Haven to visit his sister and was shocked to find me there.
When I told him what happened, he was outraged. He offered to look into the legality of what Michael had done.
It turned out that the sale of my house had been rushed, with several legal corners cut in the process. With Jack’s help, I was able to contest the sale.
After a long battle that ended with Michael having to return the money he took from the buyers and pay all the legal fees, I finally got my home back and moved out of Sunset Haven.
Now, here’s where I need advice.
My son has been trying to apologize. He showed up at my house last week, and I hardly recognized him. He looked terrible, like he hadn’t slept or eaten properly in weeks.
When I let him in, he broke down.
He told me how he’d started gambling to cope with stress at work, how things had spiraled out of control, and how he’d convinced himself that selling my house and putting me in a home was the best solution for everyone.
He swore he’d been getting help for his addiction and was committed to making things right.
“I was wrong, Dad,” he sobbed. “So wrong. Can you ever forgive me?“
Part of me wants to let bygones be bygones. He’s my son, and we only have each other in this world. But another part of me is still so angry and hurt.
How can I trust him again after what he did? He lied to me, manipulated me, and stole my home to cover up his own mistakes.
Even if he’s truly sorry now, how do I know he won’t do something like this again in the future?
What would you do in my place?
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Colegas de classe zombam de garoto pobre por morar em trailer até vê-lo se mudando para uma cobertura — História do dia
Desde cedo, Sam aprendeu a manter a cabeça baixa e permanecer humilde. Ele nunca deixou os valentões da escola o deprimirem. Mas quando sua sorte muda para melhor, ele conseguiria manter seu coração puro?
Sam passou a infância fazendo limonada com limões. Seu pai faleceu quando ele ainda era um bebê. Desde então, ele ajudou sua mãe, Susan, a ganhar um dinheiro extra quando ele tinha folga da escola. Sam e Susan moravam em um parque de trailers porque não tinham dinheiro para comprar um apartamento ou uma casa.
Susan mal ganhava dinheiro suficiente para manter as luzes acesas e pagar as mensalidades escolares de Sam, pois ela era autista e lutava para encontrar um emprego estável. “Podemos não ter muito, mas sempre sejamos gratos pelo pouco que temos”, Susan dizia ao filho.
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Na sala de aula, Sam era constantemente provocado. Os valentões da escola frequentemente o chamavam de nomes como “vagabundo” e “garoto falido”. Um valentão em particular, Jared, uma vez lhe disse: “Pessoas como você sempre ficarão presas vivendo em trailers”.
Sam nunca deixou que os insultos o derrubassem, pois sua mãe lhe ensinou que ele precisa ter pele grossa para sobreviver. Ele ainda sonhava em um dia possuir uma mansão para si e sua mãe.
Um dia, o senhorio deles, Tobey, veio cobrar o aluguel. Tobey também trabalhava como corretor imobiliário na área e tinha cartazes espalhados pela cidade. Durante a visita de Tobey, uma tempestade enorme atingiu a cidade, e ele tentou correr para casa, mas seu carro não pegava.
“Meu padrasto me ensinou que nunca encontrarei a felicidade se houver amargura em meu coração.”
“Não se preocupe, senhor. Vou olhar embaixo do capô e ver o que há de errado”, disse Sam. Sam era bem habilidoso e sabia consertar qualquer coisa que tivesse motor. Um de seus trabalhos de fim de semana era ajudar um mecânico na cidade. Em menos de uma hora, Sam consertou o carro de Tobey.
“Obrigado, garoto. Nunca vi ninguém consertar um motor na chuva antes”, disse Tobey. “Sem problemas, senhor. Mas você pode querer levá-lo para uma revisão”, respondeu Sam. Tobey ficou impressionado com a esperteza de Sam e ofereceu a ele um trabalho paralelo de lavar seu carro a cada duas semanas.
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Sam aceitou e, com o tempo, desenvolveu um bom relacionamento com Tobey, que ele via como uma figura paterna. Sempre que Tobey levava seu carro para lavar, ele passava um tempo com Susan enquanto Sam estava ocupado. Ele logo descobriu que ela tinha uma coleção de desenhos notáveis da cidade e rostos reconhecíveis.
Tobey perguntou se ela trabalhava como artista. “Não, eu só desenho coisas de memória”, respondeu Susan. Susan descobriu que Tobey também tinha ficado viúvo alguns anos antes, e os dois desenvolveram sentimentos um pelo outro. Tobey ajudou Susan a abrir um pequeno estúdio de arte, e ela começou a vender suas obras de arte.
Um dia, Jared notou que Sam estava ausente da escola. Ele sugeriu aos amigos que fizessem uma visita a Sam.
“Vamos ver o que o garoto falido está aprontando em sua cabana destruída”, brincou Jared.
Quando chegaram perto do trailer de Sam, viram que ele e a mãe estavam colocando caixas em um SUV chique. Perceberam que ele estava se mudando e ficaram curiosos.
Quando Sam, Susan e Tobey foram embora, Jared e seus amigos tentaram segui-los. O SUV era rápido demais para eles acompanharem em suas motos, e eles logo perderam o rastro.
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No dia seguinte, Jared e seus amigos seguiram Sam depois da escola para ver para onde ele tinha se mudado. Acontece que Sam tinha se mudado para um complexo de apartamentos de luxo. Mais tarde naquela tarde, Jared viu que a mãe de Sam estava de mãos dadas com Tobey. Jared reconheceu Tobey dos cartazes espalhados pela cidade.
“Caramba, a mãe do Sam está namorando o corretor imobiliário!” Jared disse aos amigos. Eles não conseguiam acreditar que o mesmo garoto que eles vinham provocando há anos por ser pobre tinha se mudado para uma cobertura chique. O que eles acharam ainda mais estranho foi que Sam não se gabava disso. Era como se nada tivesse mudado.
“Eu era um verdadeiro sujeito desprezível naquela época, mas a vida fez um bom trabalho em me humilhar desde então.”
Daquele dia em diante, Jared nunca mais provocou Sam.
10 anos depois, Jared recebeu um convite pelo correio. “Você está cordialmente convidado para uma festa muito especial de 10º aniversário…”, dizia. Jared podia ver que a festa estava sendo realizada em um apartamento de cobertura, e o nome no convite parecia familiar.
Quando ele chegou, ficou surpreso ao ver que Sam tinha organizado o evento inteiro. Tudo foi providenciado, de bebidas a comida, e todos os colegas de classe de Sam e Jared estavam presentes. Todos estavam curiosos sobre como Sam vivia em um apartamento tão luxuoso e o que ele fazia para trabalhar.
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Jared decidiu falar com ele para se desculpar pela forma como o tratou no ensino médio.
“Escuta, cara. Sinto muito mesmo por como eu costumava intimidar na escola. Não era legal. Eu era um verdadeiro pedaço de trabalho naquela época, mas a vida fez um bom trabalho em me humilhar desde então”, Jared admitiu para Sam.
Jared disse a Sam que sentiu que o karma o havia alcançado porque ele acabou morando no mesmo parque de trailers onde Sam costumava morar. Sam foi gentil com Jared e o perdoou pelo tratamento que recebeu na escola.
“Sei que os tempos estão difíceis para você agora, mas vou lhe contar algo que minha mãe me disse uma vez. Você pode não ter muito, mas seja sempre grato pelo pouco que tem”, Sam disse a ele. Alguns dos antigos colegas de classe de Sam perguntaram como ele conseguia pagar por um lugar tão bom.
Sam revelou que Tobey lhe ensinou os meandros da venda de imóveis de luxo e que ele havia assumido a empresa de seu padrasto. “Meu padrasto me ensinou uma lição valiosa muitos anos atrás. Ele me disse que eu nunca encontraria a felicidade se houvesse amargura em meu coração”, disse Sam.
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Ele então revelou que ele e sua mãe atrasaram o aluguel várias vezes antes de Tobey se apaixonar por Susan. Em vez de expulsá-los, Tobey deu a eles várias oportunidades de pagar o aluguel.
Graças ao seu coração bondoso, Sam e Susan nunca ficaram completamente sem teto. Logo, Tobey e Susan se casaram e se tornaram uma família inseparável.
Todos os colegas de Sam o parabenizaram pelo seu sucesso e disseram que ele era o orgulho de toda a escola.
O que podemos aprender com essa história?
- Nunca deixe a negatividade te derrubar. Sam não permitiu que Jared o derrubasse na escola. Ele permaneceu humilde e gentil, e um dia, Jared aprendeu com seus erros.
- Um pouco de gentileza faz toda a diferença. O simples gesto gentil de Sam para Tobey acabou mudando a vida dele e de sua mãe.
Compartilhe esta história com seus amigos. Pode alegrar o dia deles e inspirá-los.
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