My Husband Canceled My Birthday Dinner So His Friends Could Watch the Game at Our House — He Regretted It

On her birthday, Janine plans the perfect evening. Homemade dinner, candlelight and the quiet hope of being seen. But when her husband arrives with his friends and forgets everything, she makes a decision he never saw coming. This isn’t just a story about a ruined dinner. It’s about the night a woman finally chose herself.

I’m not dramatic.

I don’t need grand gestures or rose petals on the floor. I’ve never dreamed of surprise parties or social media tributes with sparkly filters and “I’m so lucky” captions. I don’t want to be the center of attention, twirling in a spotlight.

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A pensive woman | Source: Midjourney

never have.

But once a year, on my birthday, I believe that it’s fair to ask for a little effort. A little pause. A little something that says, Hey, I know you exist. I’m glad you’re here.

Just one evening. To feel seen.

Apparently, even that is too much.

A woman sitting at a table and holding her head | Source: Midjourney

A woman sitting at a table and holding her head | Source: Midjourney

I’m Janine. I’m the wife who remembers your coffee order, who packs snacks for your long drives, who listens, really listens, even when I’m exhausted. I’m the one who irons your shirts before your big meeting and makes sure that there’s a fresh towel when you step out of the shower.

I know the exact way you like your pie crust. Flaky, never soggy. I restock your cold meds before you even realize you’re sick. And when you’re down, I hover like you’re the last man on Earth, delivering soup like it’s sacred.

I don’t make things about me. I never have. I’ve always found comfort in the background, in the quiet flow of taking care of everyone else.

A freshly baked pie on a kitchen counter | Source: Midjourney

A freshly baked pie on a kitchen counter | Source: Midjourney

But this year?

I just wanted one day. One moment. One simple celebration that wasn’t something I had to build with my own two hands.

And I thought, I really thought, that he’d notice.

I sat on the porch step with a mug of matcha warming my hands, watching the last of the evening light spill over the driveway. The scent of jasmine drifted from the garden I kept alive alone, season after season.

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A woman sitting on a porch step | Source: Midjourney

And I remembered another birthday.

Two years ago. A Wednesday. I came home from work to find the house quiet. No card. No cake. Just a sink full of dishes and Kyle in the den, cursing at his fantasy football stats.

“I’ll make it up to you this weekend,” he’d said, not looking up from his laptop. But he never did. The weekend came and went with errands, Kyle nursing a hangover, and a quick dinner at a noisy bar where he checked his phone between bites of pizza.

A man sitting on a couch with his laptop | Source: Midjourney

A man sitting on a couch with his laptop | Source: Midjourney

I didn’t cry then, either, in the silence of my own company. But I realized something bitter:

He didn’t forget. My husband didn’t forget. He just didn’t think that it mattered.

And that realization landed harder than any missed dinner ever could.

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A woman laying in her bed | Source: Midjourney

But this year, I decided to change everything. I wanted it to be about me. I needed it to be about me.

I planned my own birthday dinner.

Not a restaurant… I didn’t want to force Kyle into anything “extra.” No reservations, no price tags, no fuss. Just a quiet evening at home with candles flickering in little glass holders.

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Candles on a table | Source: Midjourney

Kyle’s favorite roast lamb, slow-cooked with rosemary and garlic. A jazz playlist humming in the background. The table set with linen napkins I’d ironed that morning, polished silverware and two wine glasses we’d barely used since our anniversary three years ago.

For dessert, I made a cake from scratch. Lemon zest and almond cream because when we were still dating, my husband had mentioned that flavor reminded him of his grandmother. He’d only said it once, in passing.

But I remembered.

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A cake on a platter | Source: Midjourney

I even bought myself a new dress. Navy blue. It was fitted at the waist, soft against the skin. I curled my hair, put on a touch of lipstick and dabbed the perfume he bought me four Christmases ago. The same perfume that I’d only worn twice.

It smelled like hope to me.

I wanted to be seen. Not in a social media post way. But in a “my husband actually notices me” way.

Which is why I planned the entire thing… for my birthday.

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A smiling woman wearing a navy dress | Source: Midjourney

By the evening, everything was ready. The lamb rested on a serving dish. The wine was chilled. The mint sauce was in a little white bowl. The cake was cooling under a glass dome.

I checked the clock. Rechecked the table. Adjusted the vase of tulips. Smoothed the front of my dress with slightly shaking hands.

And then, the front door opened. Laughter, loud and thoughtless, spilled down the hall.

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A vase of tulips on a dining table | Source: Midjourney

The smell of greasy pizza took over the house. The thud of boots not wiped at the door. The air had shifted immediately.

Kyle walked in, laughing with his friends. He was balancing two twelve-packs and three pizza boxes. Behind him were Chris, Josh and Dev. Kyle’s game-night crew. They called out greetings, already halfway to the couch.

No “happy birthday.” No flowers. Not even a glance at the candles I’d lit or the silverware I’d polished. Just noise, beer and the sound of something inside me quietly folding in on itself.

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Boxes of pizza on a coffee table | Source: Midjourney

“Kyle?” I called. “Come here a sec?”

He sighed and walked toward me.

Kyle looked at the table and paused.

“Oh, right…” he said slowly. “This was tonight, huh? Yeah, we’re going to have to reschedule, Janine. The guys are here to watch the game.”

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A frowning man wearing a sports jersey | Source: Midjourney

There was no apology. No hesitation. Just a lazy shrug and a look toward the couch.

He plopped down like he owned the room, kicked off his shoes and reached for the remote. The TV lit up in a flash. His voice rose over the music I had carefully chosen. He cracked a beer and held it up like a trophy.

I just sat there, at the dining table, trying to understand when I’d lost my husband.

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A pair of boots on the floor | Source: Midjourney

“Starving, babe,” he said a few minutes later, standing right in front of me. “I’m taking the lamb. Looks delicious. There’s pizza if you want.”

He took the roast lamb and started picking at it. The one I’d basted and brushed every half hour. The one I made to feel like a hug on a plate.

Josh came to the table and grabbed the bowl of roast potatoes. Chris poured wine into a red Solo cup. Dev joked about the candlelight, calling it “romantic for a dude’s night.”

A platter of roast lamb | Source: Midjourney

A platter of roast lamb | Source: Midjourney

I stood in the doorway, hands at my sides, watching.

Watching the napkins I’d ironed crumple beneath greasy hands. Watching the food I’d made for myself, on my own birthday, disappear into paper plates and careless mouths.

Watching my night die in real time. In front of me.

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An upset woman standing in a doorway | Source: Midjourney

But I didn’t cry. I didn’t scream.

Instead, I smiled. A small, hollow thing.

“Wait,” I said calmly. “I made something really special for tonight. Just give me five minutes, okay?”

They nodded, barely looking up, thinking I probably had dessert or some party trick coming. They went back to their chatter and chewing.

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A man holding a plate of pizza | Source: Midjourney

But that was it. I wasn’t having it anymore. Enough was enough.

I walked to the laundry room. I opened the fuse box. Took one last deep breath and shut everything down. The power, the Wi-Fi, the backup router.

All of it.

The house dropped into sudden darkness. The TV cut off mid-commentary. The fridge stopped humming. The only sound was the dull confusion rising in the dark.

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A woman standing in a laundry room | Source: Midjourney

“Babe?!” Kyle’s voice echoed down the hall.

“What happened?” I asked.

I returned to the kitchen with a candle in hand, illuminating the untouched birthday cake still glowing on the counter like a soft little rebellion. I picked up my phone and texted my parents.

“What’s going on?” Josh mumbled.

Candles on a dining table | Source: Midjourney

Candles on a dining table | Source: Midjourney

“Power outage,” I said simply. “You’ll probably have to call someone. Might take a few hours.”

Then I packed the rest of the food, well, what hadn’t been mauled, into containers. I slid them into a tote bag, grabbed my coat and keys and walked right out of the door.

No one stopped me.

Leftovers in a container | Source: Midjourney

Leftovers in a container | Source: Midjourney

I drove to my parents’ house. My sister was there. So were a few old friends from the neighborhood. There were balloons. Gifts. A hand-drawn banner. A cake from the 24-hour bakery. How they managed to do all of that in the 30 minutes it took to get there, I’ll never know.

There was music that didn’t make my ears ring. There was no loud sport commentary. There was laughter that didn’t feel forced.

There was a seat, just for me.

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A birthday cake on a table | Source: Midjourney

And for the first time in years, I felt celebrated.

I laughed. I danced. I ate a slice of cake that didn’t taste like obligation. There were candles, hugs, stories from old friends who still remembered the girl I used to be. For once, I didn’t feel like an afterthought. I felt like Janine, not someone’s wife, or someone’s “MVP.”

I was just… me.

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A smiling woman sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

I got texts, of course. Missed calls. Kyle even left a voicemail. His voice was laced with confusion more than concern.

“You’re seriously mad, Janine? Over dinner? Call me back.”

I didn’t.

But I returned home the next morning.

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A cellphone on a table | Source: Midjourney

Kyle was in the kitchen, arms crossed, his foot tapping against the tile like he’d been practicing his speech.

“Seriously?” he snapped the moment I walked in. “Cutting the power? Over a missed dinner? I was still in the house! We were sharing the dinner with my boys! That was just so dramatic, Janine.”

His tone was all accusation and zero apology. Like I was a child who’d flipped a Monopoly board instead of a woman who’d finally run out of patience.

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An annoyed man | Source: Midjourney

I didn’t answer. Just slipped off my coat, set down my bag and pulled out a neatly wrapped box from the tote.

“What’s that?” he blinked.

I handed it to him without a word. He tore at the wrapping, the irritation still clinging to him.

Then he saw what was inside.

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A box on a table | Source: Midjourney

Divorce papers. They weren’t real, yet. I hadn’t had the time to get real papers drawn up. This was something I’d downloaded off the internet at my parents’ house. There were no names on it but I figured that it would get the message across.

Kyle’s hands froze mid-flip. His brow furrowed as he scanned the top page, as if some fine print might reveal it was a joke.

“You can’t be serious,” he said finally, his voice quieter now. Less sure.

I looked at him, really looked, and saw a man so used to being prioritized that it never crossed his mind that I might choose myself.

Divorce documents on a table | Source: Midjourney

Divorce documents on a table | Source: Midjourney

“You’re right,” I said, my voice soft. “I wasn’t serious. Not about dinner. Not about birthdays. Not about me. I stopped being serious about what I needed a long time ago, Kyle.”

I paused, taking a deep breath.

“But I’m done being the only one who cares.”

I walked past him, the click of my heels the only punctuation I needed. I didn’t look back. But as I reached the doorway, I stopped.

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A frowning woman wearing a sweater | Source: Midjourney

I pulled the candle from my bag, the one that had stayed lit through dinner, through the drive, through the quiet.

I walked back into the living room, set it gently on the windowsill and lit it. Its glow was steady. Small. Defiant.

Kyle stood behind me, confused.

“The power’s back,” he said stupidly.

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A candle lit in a windowsill | Source: Midjourney

“It’s not about that. It’s not for that. I don’t need the power back on,” I said. “I found everything I needed in the dark, Kyle.”

And then I left. No speech. No slam of the door.

Just the quiet sound of a woman choosing herself for the first time in far too long. I’m not sure what game they were watching that night… but I know who really won. Because I may have walked out with cold leftovers and one flickering flame. But I also walked out with my dignity.

And I never looked back.

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A woman walking down a driveway | Source: Midjourney

What would you have done?

In-Laws Kicked Us Out of the House They Gifted After We Paid for Renovations — Then It Got Even Worse

When Mike’s parents offer him and his family a home, they are over the moon. Mike and Maria have a growing family, and they need the extra space. So, they venture into renovations, making the house a home. But one day, Mike’s parents called, wanting their home back.

When my in-laws offered us a house, we thought it was a dream come true. With three kids and a tight budget, any help came as a blessing.

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A close-up of a house | Source: Midjourney

But, let me be honest with you: the house was far from ideal.

“It’s in the middle of nowhere, Mike,” I told my husband when we were sitting on the couch talking about the possibility of moving into the house.

“It’s miles away from the kids’ school and our jobs! We’ll have to leave a lot earlier just to make it on time,” I said, sighing.

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A couple sitting on a couch and talking | Source: Midjourney

“I know, Maria,” my husband said. “It irritates me to think that the nearest grocery store is about twenty minutes away. But I don’t want to be ungrateful.”

And I understood that. In fact, their gift had come at the perfect moment. We had outgrown our little two-bedroomed house. It was now cluttered, and our three kids had to share one bedroom.

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A cluttered bedroom | Source: Midjourney

“We’ll do it for the kids,” I said, taking his hand. “Whatever happens, we’ll make it work for them.”

“Think of it as a fresh start, kids,” Mike’s mom said when we went over to their home for dinner. “You’ll love the peace and quiet, and the kids will have a lot of space to run about in. This is going to be good for you.”

“Yes, Mom,” Mike said. “We agree with you. We’re looking forward to this new start and just going on a journey together as a family.”

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A family sitting at a table | Source: Midjourney

The house itself was a fixer-upper, to put it mildly. There was an entire to-do list of things that needed to be done. The house needed a new kitchen, the wiring needed to be updated, and the bathrooms needed an overhaul.

We knew it would be a big project, but at the end of the day, Mike and I wanted this house to be the home our children grew up in.

“The yard is so big, honey,” Mike told me. “Can you imagine all the birthday parties and even having our kids getting married from here? I love it.”

We poured all our savings into renovating it, making it not just livable but a true home for our family. Our children deserved it.

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An outdoor birthday party set up | Source: Midjourney

As things were falling into place, Mike, the tech enthusiast, even set up a state-of-the-art smart home system.

“At least it’s ours,” Mike said, smiling as he showed me how the new system worked. “It finally feels like home.”

A few months went by, and we were settled into our new home. The children adapted beautifully, and Mike and I got closer as a couple. We went on long walks together, and the kids went on picnics together all the time.

Our family had grown closer together.

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A picnic set up | Source: Midjourney

Then, last month, my in-laws dropped a bombshell. They decided to sell their current house and buy a lakeside cabin. To fund this new venture, they needed our house back.

What? How? This had become our home.

We were absolutely stunned. They insisted that although they had gifted it to us, they still had a right to take it back. The sense of betrayal was overwhelming.

“They can’t do this,” Mike fumed, pacing our newly renovated kitchen. “We have a letter from them saying it was a gift!”

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A shocked couple | Source: Midjourney

My husband and I couldn’t believe it. We had a written letter from them, clearly stating that the house was a gift. We decided to fight back, hiring a lawyer to help us navigate this sudden crisis.

We provided all the documents, receipts, and the gift letter. We were convinced that there had to be some legal ground we could stand on.

“I don’t know what else to do,” Mike said one morning when we were having our coffee together. “I don’t know how we’re supposed to find another place and uproot the kids again. This isn’t fair!”

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A stack of paper | Source: Midjourney

Weeks passed as we waited for a resolution. But I was just getting more agitated as the days went on. Mike told me not to do anything until the lawyer got back to us. But I couldn’t wait.

I couldn’t sit back and do nothing while we waited for our home to be taken away from us. So, I spent hours looking at rentals available in the area. I just needed to have options available on hand.

I didn’t know what was coming. And I couldn’t believe that Mike’s parents would willingly put us in this situation.

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A woman using a phone | Source: Unsplash

But then, the lawyer did eventually get back to us.

He walked up our driveway expressionless, which immediately made me think that there was no good news coming.

“I’m afraid there’s not much we can do,” he said. “The property was never legally transferred into your names. The documents show them as the legal owners. So, I’m sorry, but Mike’s parents are the owners.”

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A man in a suit walking | Source: Midjourney

The news was devastating.

I felt my entire stomach drop.

Mike, furious and heartbroken, suggested we undo all the renovations out of spite.

“They used us,” he said bitterly. “We should take back everything we put into this place.”

But I couldn’t bear the thought. Despite everything, we couldn’t stoop to that level.

“We’re better than that,” I said. “We’ll find another place and make it ours.”

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An expressionless woman | Source: Midjourney

So, we packed our belongings and moved into a tiny apartment closer to the city.

It was cramped, but it felt like a fresh start, free from the manipulation of my in-laws.

The kids adjusted surprisingly well, finding new friends and enjoying the proximity to their school and activities.

“I feel like we failed our children,” I told Mike when we were unpacking our kitchen items. “I just hate that they have to share a room again. And bunk beds? You know they hate this!”

“I know, my love,” Mike said. “But it’s just for now. The moment we can move to something better, we will. I promise you.”

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A small apartment | Source: Midjourney

Just when we thought that the drama was over, my in-laws reached out to us again. They were struggling with the smart home system Mike had set up.

“We can’t figure out how to use the lights, let alone the heating!” Mike’s dad complained over the phone. “Can’t you come back and help us out here?”

The irony wasn’t lost on us.

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An elderly man using a phone | Source: Midjourney

We had made that house livable and even comfortable, pouring our money and energy into it. Now, they were reaping the benefits of our hard work, but they were clueless about managing the systems we installed.

Despite their pleas, there was no way that we were going back.

“No,” Mike said firmly. “The house wasn’t right for us. We’re staying where we are.”

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A man holding his phone | Source: Midjourney

The trust was shattered, and the house, with all its tech features, was a constant reminder of the betrayal. Living in the cramped apartment wasn’t easy, but we found solace in the fact that we were free from emotional manipulation.

“This isn’t going to be forever, Maria,” Mike said. “I promise you. I’ll fix this.”

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A couple embracing | Source: Midjourney

The experience left us wary of gifts that come with strings attached. We learned that sometimes, what seems like a generous gesture can be a way for others to control your life.

As for my in-laws, they eventually figured out the smart home system, but the damage was done. Our relationship with them has changed irrevocably.

“Please, come over for dinner,” Mike’s mother said. “We miss you guys, and we miss the kids terribly.”

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“I’m sorry, Eileen,” I said. “But we’re just so hurt. And you should have known better. You’re a mother; you know how important it is for kids to have stability. And you and Derek took that away from us.”

“Calm down, please, Maria,” she said.

“No, because I don’t think you understand the extent of our wounds. Mike is so disappointed in you both.”

Without another word, Eileen cut the call.

“Oh, well,” I said to myself as I started chopping vegetables for dinner. Mike and the kids would be home soon.

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A woman in the kitchen | Source: Midjourney

What would you have done?

If you enjoyed this story, here’s another one for you |

I Accidentally Found Out My Friend’s Husband Was Cheating – I Couldn’t Help but Take My Revenge

Allison decides to hold onto her youthful side as she drives a taxi during her spare time. But one day, her friend’s husband is her passenger. As she takes the man to his destination, he asks for a detour, revealing a side of him she didn’t know. Next, Allison has to decide whether to be good at her job and protect her friend or help show her the truth.

Driving a taxi at 65 years old wasn’t part of my retirement plan, but it became my passion. I had been a writer for a women’s column for the better part of my career, and since retirement dawned, I only wrote a few articles per month.

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A person using a typewriter | Source: Midjourney

“Just something to keep the old clogs working,” my editor, Elena, said when I told her that retirement was knocking on my door. “You don’t have to commit to it, Allison. It can be a freelance role, if that’s what you’d like. But just write for us every so often.”

I agreed, what else did I have to do with my time anyway?

But then, the open road, the hum of the engine, and the stories of my passengers kept me going.

“Mom, why?” my son, Darren, asked me. “Like really? Driving people around?”

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A smiling man | Source: Midjourney

“You’ll understand the need to do something freeing when you’re older, son,” I told him. “Let me do this while I still can. And what’s better than enjoying what I do?”

Yesterday was one of those days that I’ll never forget because it reminded me how foul people can be.

The previous day, one of my regulars, Jane, called me. She was a lively 55-year-old woman, and over the years, we had become friends.

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A smiling older woman | Source: Midjourney

“Hi, Allison,” she said on the phone. “I need a favor.”

“If it involves those croquettes with the peas that you’re trying to get me to eat, it’s a hard pass,” I chuckled. “What do you need?”

“Mike is leaving on a trip tomorrow, and he needs a ride to the airport. I’m going to be babysitting the grandbaby, so I don’t want to disturb her routine.”

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People at an airport | Source: Midjourney

Read the full story here.

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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