Quando minha irmã perfeita roubou meu marido enquanto eu estava grávida, me senti completamente destruída. Ela sempre acreditou que era melhor do que eu e finalmente conseguiu o que queria. Mas a vida tem um jeito de mudar as coisas. Quando tudo desmoronou para ela, ela apareceu na minha porta implorando por ajuda.
Durante toda a minha vida, estive em segundo plano. Por mais que eu tentasse, nunca fui o suficiente para meus pais. Eu tirava notas máximas em casa, mantinha meu quarto impecável e fazia tudo o que podia para deixá-los orgulhosos.
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Mas nada disso importava. Stacy, minha irmã mais nova, era a estrela brilhante deles. Enquanto eu me saía bem na escola discretamente e fazia tarefas sem que me pedissem, Stacy quebrava recordes em competições de natação.
Meus pais a tratavam como uma celebridade e dedicavam cada momento livre ao seu sucesso. Eu me sentia invisível.
A única pessoa que realmente me viu foi minha avó. Ela costumava me levar para sua casa, onde senti um calor e um amor que nunca senti na minha própria casa.
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De muitas maneiras, ela me criou. Eu passava fins de semana e verões com ela, aprendendo a cozinhar, assistindo a filmes antigos e sentindo que eu era importante.
Quando me formei no ensino médio, meus pais nem fingiram se importar. Eles me expulsaram, dizendo que eu estava por conta própria agora.
Foi minha avó quem me ajudou a me mudar para o dormitório da faculdade depois que ganhei uma bolsa de estudos.
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Aquela bolsa foi minha única saída. Quando completei 18 anos, recusei-me a aceitar mais dinheiro dela.
Ela já tinha feito o suficiente por mim. Quando consegui um bom emprego depois da formatura, fiquei orgulhoso de finalmente poder retribuir a ela.
Agora, sou casada com o Henry. Minha avó nunca gostou dele. Ela sempre dizia que havia algo de estranho nele, mas eu acreditava que ele me amava.
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Ultimamente, porém, minha avó não andava se sentindo bem. Senti um nó no estômago enquanto dirigia até a casa dela.
Eu sabia que precisava visitá-la. Ela precisava de mim agora, assim como eu sempre precisei dela.
Estávamos sentados à mesa da cozinha, tomando chá. Minha avó mexia o chá lentamente, com os olhos fixos na xícara. Então, ela olhou para cima e perguntou: “Você ainda está com o Henry?”
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Fiquei paralisada por um instante, meus dedos apertando a caneca. “Claro”, eu disse. “Somos casados.”
Os olhos dela não se desviaram dos meus. “E os casos dele?”
Mexi-me desconfortavelmente na cadeira. Aquela pergunta doeu mais do que eu queria admitir. “Ele prometeu que não me trairia de novo”, eu disse.
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“E você acredita nele?” ela perguntou suavemente.
“Estou tentando”, murmurei. “Ele me ama. Preciso acreditar nisso.” Hesitei e acrescentei: “Estou grávida. Quero que meu filho tenha um pai.”
A expressão da minha avó não mudou. “Isso não é amor, May”, disse ela gentilmente.
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“Ele me vê”, eu disse, tentando convencer nós dois.
“Então por que ele passa tanto tempo com seus pais e Stacy?” ela perguntou.
Desviei o olhar. “Eu também falo com eles. Só que não tanto”, respondi, tentando ignorar.
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“Exatamente.” Ela soltou um suspiro pesado. “Não quero te chatear, mas minha amiga viu Henry e Stacy juntos. Eles estavam em um restaurante.”
Meu estômago embrulhou. Senti como se não conseguisse respirar. “O que você está dizendo?”, perguntei, com a voz trêmula.
“Talvez Stacy não conseguisse lidar com você feliz”, ela disse suavemente.
“Isso é ridículo!”, gritei, com o coração disparado. “Não quero falar sobre isso!”
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Peguei minha bolsa e me levantei. Não conseguia mais ouvir. Enquanto me dirigia para a porta, ouvi a voz dela, calma, mas cheia de preocupação. “May, querida, só estou tentando ajudar”, disse ela gentilmente. Mas eu já tinha ido embora.
Enquanto dirigia para casa, a raiva fervia dentro de mim. Minha avó tinha passado dos limites dessa vez.
Como ela pôde dizer algo tão cruel? Henry tinha cometido erros, mas estava tentando. E Stacy? Ela era egoísta, mas nem ela se rebaixaria tanto.
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Quando entrei na garagem, desliguei o motor e respirei fundo. Precisava me acalmar.
Mas, no momento em que entrei, algo pareceu errado. Então, ouvi barulhos vindos do andar de cima.
Sons suaves e abafados que não deveriam estar ali. Meu coração batia forte enquanto eu subia as escadas.
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Minhas mãos tremiam quando estendi a mão para a porta do quarto. Abri-a e congelei.
Henry e Stacy. Na minha cama.
Lágrimas encheram meus olhos. Eu não conseguia me mexer. Por um momento, o mundo parou. Henry foi o primeiro a me ver.
Seus olhos se arregalaram de pânico enquanto ele pulava da cama, lutando para vestir suas roupas.
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“May! O que você está fazendo aqui?!”, gritou Henry, com a voz cheia de pânico.
Eu não conseguia acreditar no que ouvia. “O que estou fazendo na minha própria casa?!”, gritei, com a voz trêmula.
“Você deveria estar na casa da sua avó!” Henry gritou, vestindo a camisa.
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“É só isso que você tem a dizer?”, perguntei, com os olhos marejados de lágrimas. “Acabei de te pegar na cama com a minha irmã, e essa é a sua desculpa?”
“E daí?”, disse Stacy, sentando-se na cama. Um sorriso irônico se espalhou por seu rosto. “Sou melhor que você. Sempre fui. Não é à toa que Henry também percebeu isso.”
“Como você ousa!”, gritei, minha raiva transbordando.
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“Mas é verdade”, disse Henry, com um tom frio e cruel. “A Stacy é mais bonita. Ela está sempre bonita, usa maquiagem e se mantém em forma.”
“E ela não trabalha!” Eu retruquei.
“Ter um emprego não importa”, disse Henry. “E sejamos honestos. Você engordou.”
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Meu estômago embrulhou. Minha mão instintivamente tocou minha barriga. “Porque estou grávida! Do seu filho!”, gritei.
O rosto de Henry endureceu. “Não sei se é verdade”, disse ele. “Stacy e eu conversamos. Não tenho certeza se o bebê é meu.”
Fiquei boquiaberta. Mal conseguia respirar. “Tá brincando?! Você é quem me traiu sem parar!”
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“Talvez você também tenha trapaceado”, disse Henry, cruzando os braços como se fosse a vítima.
“É, claro!” Stacy interrompeu, com a voz transbordando satisfação.
“Cale a boca!” gritei para ela, com as mãos tremendo.
“Ela pode dizer o que quiser”, disse Henry. “Chega. Vou pedir o divórcio.”
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“Você está falando sério?!” gritei, com o coração batendo forte.
“Sim. Arrume suas coisas e vá embora hoje à noite”, disse Henry friamente. “A casa está em meu nome.”
Zombei, enxugando as lágrimas. “Vamos ver quanto tempo você aguenta sem mim”, disse eu, e então me virei para Stacy. “Só para você saber, ele está desempregado há seis meses. Ele nem consegue encontrar um emprego.”
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“Ele ainda me comprou presentes caros”, disse Stacy com um sorriso maroto.
“Quem será que ele usou o dinheiro?”, respondi, com a voz cheia de desgosto.
Arrumei minhas coisas, enfiei as roupas em sacolas. Ao anoitecer, eu já tinha ido embora. Não tinha mais para onde ir.
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Meu coração se partiu enquanto eu dirigia para o único lugar onde sabia que estaria segura. Parei na porta da minha avó e toquei a campainha.
Quando ela abriu e me viu, não consegui mais me conter. Lágrimas escorriam pelo meu rosto enquanto eu sussurrava: “Você tinha razão.”
Ela me puxou para os seus braços. “Calma, calma, vai ficar tudo bem”, disse ela suavemente, acariciando meus cabelos.
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Henry e eu nos divorciamos, e ele levou tudo. A casa, os móveis e até algumas coisas que eu comprei.
Tudo o que me restava era o meu carro. Eu não me importava. Estava feliz por estar livre dele. Minha avó era a única que estava ao meu lado em tudo.
Ela me deu um lugar para ficar e garantiu que eu não me sentisse sozinho. Fiquei imensamente grato pelo seu amor e apoio.
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Certa noite, enquanto eu dobrava roupa, minha avó entrou no quarto. Seu rosto estava sério. Ela se sentou ao meu lado e pegou minha mão. “May, precisamos conversar”, disse ela suavemente.
Meu coração apertou. “O que aconteceu?”, perguntei, minha voz quase um sussurro.
Ela respirou fundo. “Eu não queria te contar, mas acho que preciso”, disse ela. “Quando comecei a me sentir mal, o médico disse que eu só tinha alguns anos de vida.”
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Fiquei paralisada. “O quê?…”, sussurrei, com a garganta apertada.
“Eu não disse nada porque pensei que tinha mais tempo”, disse ela gentilmente. “Mas agora… o médico disse que eu só tenho alguns meses.”
Meus olhos se encheram de lágrimas. “Não… isso não pode estar acontecendo”, murmurei.
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“Infelizmente, não poderei ajudá-lo com meu bisneto”, disse ela, com a voz cheia de tristeza.
“Por favor, vovó”, implorei. “Prometa-me que viverá o suficiente para conhecê-lo. Prometa-me que o verá.” Lágrimas escorriam pelo meu rosto enquanto eu a abraçava com força.
Ela acariciou meus cabelos, com um toque gentil. “Não posso fazer promessas que não sei se consigo cumprir”, sussurrou.
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A cada dia que passava, minha avó ficava mais fraca. Eu podia ver isso nos olhos dela e no jeito como suas mãos tremiam.
Tentei passar o máximo de tempo possível com ela. Parei de ir ao escritório e comecei a trabalhar em casa.
Eu queria estar por perto caso ela precisasse de mim. Eu cozinhava suas comidas favoritas, mesmo que ela mal comesse.
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Limpei a casa e mantive as coisas em ordem, mas garanti que ela ainda se sentisse útil.
“Vovó, você gosta dessa cor para o quarto do bebê?”, perguntei certa tarde, segurando amostras de tecido.
Ela sorriu suavemente. “A azul. É calma e tranquila.”
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Fazíamos caminhadas curtas quando ela se sentia forte o suficiente. Assistíamos aos nossos programas favoritos à noite, rindo das mesmas piadas que tínhamos ouvido centenas de vezes. Ela era a minha força, e eu era a dela.
Mas por mais que eu tentasse, não conseguia parar o tempo. Minha avó faleceu quando eu estava grávida de oito meses.
Ela nunca conheceu o bisneto. Perdê-la me destruiu, mas eu precisava manter a calma pelo meu bebê. Não podia deixar que minha dor o machucasse.
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No funeral, vi minha família pela primeira vez em muito tempo. Meus pais, Stacy e até Henry apareceram.
Stacy não parecia ela mesma. Seu rosto estava pálido e seus olhos pareciam vazios. Ela parecia cansada e esgotada.
Após o culto, nos reunimos na sala de estar da minha avó para a leitura do testamento. Sentei-me em silêncio, com as mãos apoiadas na barriga.
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“Não há muito a dizer”, começou o advogado. “Tudo é herdado por May e seu filho, com um bilhete dizendo: ‘Por sempre estarem presentes.’”
Fiquei paralisada. Eu sabia que minha avó me deixaria alguma coisa, mas nunca imaginei que ela me deixaria tudo.
Minha família explodiu em gritos. Meus pais discutiram. Stacy teve um ataque. Até Henry tinha algo a dizer. O barulho era demais. Fiquei tonta. O advogado percebeu e rapidamente os acompanhou para fora.
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Com a herança da minha avó, eu tinha o suficiente para tirar licença-maternidade sem preocupações.
Mesmo assim, eu não queria desperdiçar o dinheiro dela. Planejei trabalhar o máximo que pudesse. Sabia que ela gostaria que eu fosse forte.
Pouco depois do funeral, alguém tocou a campainha. Eu não esperava ninguém.
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Quando abri a porta, vi Stacy. Ela parecia ainda pior do que no funeral.
Seu rosto estava pálido, seus olhos vermelhos e inchados. Suas roupas estavam amassadas e seu cabelo estava uma bagunça.
“O que você quer?” perguntei, com a voz monótona.
“Posso entrar?”, Stacy perguntou suavemente, evitando meu olhar.
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“Diga o que você precisa aqui”, eu disse.
“Preciso da sua ajuda”, disse ela, com a voz quase num sussurro. “Preciso de dinheiro.”
Cruzei os braços. “Por que eu deveria te ajudar?”
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“O Henry ainda não encontrou um emprego”, disse ela, com a voz trêmula. “Perdemos a casa por causa das dívidas. Agora estamos morando com os nossos pais.” Ela olhou para baixo. “E… ele está me traindo.”
“Foi sua escolha, Stacy”, eu disse. “Você roubou meu marido porque se achou melhor que eu. Lembra?”
“Eu não sabia que ia acabar assim”, ela sussurrou. “Talvez… talvez você pudesse nos deixar ficar com você? Você tem mais espaço que nossos pais.”
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Pisquei, incrédula. “Está se ouvindo? Você passou a vida inteira me menosprezando. Você levou meu marido. E agora quer minha ajuda?”
“É tão difícil assim para você?!” Stacy disparou, elevando o tom de voz.
“Você convenceu o Henry de que eu não estava grávida dele”, eu disse com firmeza. “Preciso me concentrar no futuro do meu filho. Não em você.”
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Seus olhos se encheram de lágrimas. “O que eu vou fazer?!”, ela gritou.
“Você fez sua escolha”, eu disse com uma voz calma, mas firme. “O máximo que posso fazer é te dar o contato de um bom advogado de divórcio.” Fiz uma pausa e acrescentei: “Afinal, você me salvou do Henry.”
“Você é horrível!” Stacy gritou, com o rosto contorcido de raiva.
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Olhei para ela, com o coração tranquilo. “Pense em tudo o que você fez comigo e depois decida quem é realmente horrível aqui.”
“Eu não vou deixar o Henry!”, ela gritou. “Não preciso do seu advogado!” Ela se virou e saiu furiosa.
Observei-a ir embora sem dizer mais nada. Não me senti culpado. Eu finalmente tinha me defendido.
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Entrei e fechei a porta atrás de mim. Pela primeira vez em muito tempo, senti que conseguia respirar. O peso de tudo estava se dissipando lentamente. Encostei-me à porta e soltei um suspiro profundo.
Meu coração ainda doía pela minha avó. Eu sentia falta dela todos os dias. A casa parecia vazia sem seu calor e amor. Mas, mesmo com sua ausência, ela cuidou de mim e do meu bebê.
Ela nos deixou segurança e um futuro. Coloquei a mão na barriga e sussurrei: “Obrigada, vovó. Vou deixar você orgulhosa.”
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Conte-nos o que você achou desta história e compartilhe com seus amigos. Isso pode inspirá-los e alegrar o dia deles.
Carly Simon finally says who “You’re So Vain” is written about, confirms what we knew all along
With two successful albums in the span of only nine months, Simon soon found herself solidified as a famous and immensely popular singer/songwriter. In 1971, she received a Grammy Award for Best New Artist of the Year, and additionally one nomination in the “Best Pop Female Vocalist” category.
Carly Simon – “You’re So Vain”
In November of 1972, Carly Simon released her third album, and it was intended to be her big commercial breakthrough. No Secrets spent five weeks at No. 1 on the US Billboard 200 chart and quickly achieved gold status.
It was a great album that spread all over the world, spending weeks and weeks on the top of the charts in countries like Norway, Australia and Canada. But it was one song in particular – the third on the album – that would change her life forever.
You’re So Vain was the song that most people reference when talking of Carly Simon. It was a smash-hit right away, and throughout the years, it’s grown even bigger and bigger.
The song is currently ranked at No. 92 on Billboard‘s Greatest Songs of All-Time list. In 2014, it was voted as number as no 216 when Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) asked the question of the best songs of the century. That same year, it was crowned as the ultimate song of the 1970’s by the UK Official Charts Company.
The album was recorded at the famous Trident Studios in London, England, where bands like The Beatles recorded The White Album and David Bowie made Space Oddity.
You’re So Vain – recording
You’re So Vain also held plenty of secrets when it was released, and for many years it was the subject of one of rock ‘n’ roll’s biggest mysteries. But we’ll get to that soon.
Firstly, Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger is uncredited on the song, even though he sings on the chorus.
At the time of the recording, several other famous artists were at the Trident Studios, and the likes of Paul McCartney, Linda McCartney, legendary record producer George Martin, and Harry Nilsson watched her record. Actually, McCartney himself pitched in to guest star with background vocals.
And then there was Mick Jagger. Carly Simon wrote in her memoir that he actually invited himself to the recording. Jagger had pursued her in London and called Trident Studios once he understood she was there.
“It was shortly after midnight. Mick and I, we were close together – the same height, same coloring, same lips,” Simon writes.
“I felt as if I was trying to stay within a pink gravity that was starting to loosen its silky grip on me. I was thrilled by the proximity, remembering all the times I had spent imitating him in front of my closet mirror.”
As mentioned, You’re So Vain was a rock ‘n’ roll mystery. It’s always fun to know the background story of a song, wether its about a certain event, a person, or if that one line is a reference for something special.
You’re So Vain – who is it about?
In Carly Simon’s case, no one knew who You’re So Vain was about.
Some guessed – and had conspiracy theories – that the song was about Mick Jagger. Sure, there was a pretty clear connection between the two, especially since he actually sang on the record.
But no, it turns out the rumours were wrong. The truth is that You’re So Vain – at least the second verse – is about one-time Hollywood lothario Warren Beatty, whom she dated briefly in the early 1970’s.
“You had me several years ago when I was still quite naive.
Well you said that we made such a pretty pair.
And that you would never leave.
But you gave away the things you loved and one of them was me.
I had some dreams, they were clouds in my coffee.
Clouds in my coffee”.
In her memoir, Carly revealed that the song was also about two other people, but she won’t reveal who they were.
“I don’t think so,” she told People. “At least until they know it’s about them.”
“Probably, if we were sitting over at dinner and I said: ‘remember that time you walked into the party and…’ I don’t know if I’ll do it. I never thought I would admit that it was more than one person.”
Simon dated Warren Beatty for a short while in the ’70s, and described him as a “glorious specimen” who put all other men “to shame, if looks and charm were what you were after.”
Carly Simon – James Taylor
So what about Carly Simon’s love life besides Warren? Well, she’s been married once, to singer/songwriter James Taylor.
They had met briefly as children, and then again in her dressing room in 1971. She described the latter meeting in her book. Taylor was there together with his then-girlfriend Joni Mitchell.
“He was barefoot, long-legged, long-footed – and is knees were bent,” she wrote in her memoir.
”He wore dark red, loose, wide-wale corduroys and a long-sleeved Henley with one button open, his right hand clutching a self-rule cigarette. His hair, simultaneously shiny and disheveled, fell evenly on both sides of his head, and he wore a scruffy, understated mustache, the kind so fashionable back in the yearly 1970s. He seemed both kempt and unkempt. Even sprawled out on the floor, everything about him communicated that he was, in fact, the center of something – the core of an apple, the center of a note.”
Carly Simon and James Taylor started dating later the same year and tied the knot in November of 1972. 11 years later, the couple divorced, but it wasn’t just because they didn’t have the same love for each other anymore.
Carly Simon – children
Simon explained that it mostly had to do with drugs. They had two children, now grown up and working in the music business. Daughter Sally Taylor is 46 years old and Ben Taylor’s 43.
Her memoir Boys in the Trees pretty much ends with her marriage to James Taylor. Her son hasn’t read the book. But her daughter has.
“I think he would feel more conflicted than Sally did,” Simon told ABC in 2016. “I had told her almost everything, but when she read it all together, she was just so amazed. She said, ‘I’m so proud of you for being able to tell it like it is for you.’”
Carly Simon was later engaged to musician Russ Kunkel in 1985. She married writer James Hart in December 1987, but the couple divorced in 2007.
Carly Simon, now 75 years of age, continued making music for many years to come. And, as a by-product, continued to win several awards for her trophy cabinet.
Her 1977 worldwide hit Nobody Does It Better was the theme song of the Bond movie The Spy Who Loved Me. It’s considered by many to be one of the greatest Bond anthems of all time.
Hall of Fame entry
In 1988, she released the song Let The River Run, first featured in the 1988 movie Working Girl. With the song, she became the first singer ever to win three major awards for a single track: an Academy Award, a Grammy and a Golden Globe.
Six years later, in 1994, Carly was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame.
Carly Simon lived a happy life during the 1960s and 1970s. She sure is a legendary singer with a legacy that will live on forever.
Thank you for all the wonderful music, Carly, and we hope to hear more in the future.
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When Carly Simon wrote the song You’re So Vain, her career changed forever, and yet the song remains one of rock ‘n’ roll’s biggest mysteries. Who is the person Simon is singing about?
Well, Carly herself has revealed who the classic song is about.
The 1970’s sure was a time for great music. During the 1960’s, bands like The Beatles had conquered the world, and now it was time for the likes of Bob Dylan and others to take over.
Carly Simon – singer/songwriter
One of those who did just that was Carly Simon. The wonderful singer/songwriter became one of the most popular artists when her career began to grow in the early 1970’s.
We’ve all heard You’re so Vain and various other classics from the New Yorker. But what about her life? And who was You’re so Vain actually about? This is the story of the wonderful Carly Simon.
Carly Simon was born on June 25, 1945, in New York City, the youngest daughter of an upper-class New York family. Her father Richard Simon was the co-founder of the Simon & Schuster publishing company.
Carly Simon – childhood
Now, Carly’s childhood wasn’t exactly perfect. As a third daughter, she often felt inadequate. Did her parents really want her?
“After two daughters he’d been counting on a son, a male successor to be named Carl. When I was born, he and Mommy simply added a y to the word, like an accusing chromosome: Carly,” she said.
When she was just 7 or 8 years old, Carly experienced a string of disturbing sexual encounters with a teenage boy.
“I didn’t realize that I was being used,” she said in an interview with USA Today. “I thought of myself as being in love with him. I’m sure a lot of girls go through the same thing.”
As a young girl, Carly got to see what the music industry was all about. But it would be some time before she would become the sensation she was.
Simon split her time between her family’s townhouse in Greenwich Village, New York and a wonderful estate in Stamford, Connecticut. The estate in Stamford saw the young girl surrounded by celebrities like Albert Einstein and Eleanor Roosevelt.
The Simon family were also good friends of legendary baseball player Jackie Robinson, who soon would take Carly under his wing. Jackie Robinson and his family lived in the Stamford house while their own home was under construction.
Befriended Jackie Robinson
She got to sit in the dugout at the old Ebbets Field in Brooklyn – home of the then-Brooklyn Dodgers. Soon, she became the unofficial mascot of the team.
“Jackie even taught me how to bat lefty, though it never took”, Simon wrote in her memoir Boys in the Trees (2015).
“He always had the cutest look around the side of his mouth, as if he were thinking about what he was about to say before he said it.”
However, the family would go through a tragedy. Simon’s father was strong-armed out of his own company, and died in 1960, just before his daughter’s 16th birthday.
For her part, Carly showed an early interest in music. She started singing together with brother Joey – who later became a successful writer, writing the music for the Broadway show The Secret Garden – but later, it was her and her sister who would go on to pursue a career in the business.
As Carly wrote on her website, she and sister Lucy taught themselves three chords on the guitar and hitch-hiked up to Provincetown, MA in the summer of 1964.
The Simon Sisters – as they called themselves – sang at a local bar called The Moors, with a repertoar consisting of folk music, as well as some of their own songs.
Touring with sister Lucy
Carly Simon and Lucy were eventually signed to Kapp Records and played a couple of clubs in Greenwich Village, opening for early comedians Woody Allen and Dick Cavett, among others, and even played in the UK.
In her memoir, Simon recalls the boat trip across the Atlantic heading home.
They were on the same boat as Sean Connery, and Carly and her sister ended up spending the trip with the actor. At that point, of course, no one could realize or even imagine that Carly would write a Bond theme song 12 years later.
The sister duo released three albums in the 1960s before Lucy left to get married.
Carly Simon was on her own, but still determined to forge a career in the music industry. However, her career had a slow start. She started working as a summer-camp counselor and as a secretary on a TV show.
Carly’s career
In February of 1971, Simon released her debut album Carly Simon. The song That’s the Way I’ve Always Heard It Should Be – an anti-marriage-song – became her first hit, reaching No. 10 on the Billboard Hot 100 list.
In October, later the same year, Simon released her second album, Anticipation. By now, things had really started to blow up. Her album went gold in two years and contained the smash hit Anticipation, which peaked at No. 13 on the Billboard pop singles chart and also at No. 3 on the Billboard Adult Contemporary chart in the United States.
According to herself, Simon wrote the song in just 15 minutes while waiting for Cat Stevens at her place, whom she was dating at the time and had made dinner for. When he arrived, the song was ready, but the date only lasted a short while.
“He gave me whispers and drawings of Blake poems,” Carly Simon said. “He told me about his childhood, his mixed Greek and Swedish parents, and we made a connection that has lasted.”
With two successful albums in the span of only nine months, Simon soon found herself solidified as a famous and immensely popular singer/songwriter. In 1971, she received a Grammy Award for Best New Artist of the Year, and additionally one nomination in the “Best Pop Female Vocalist” category.
Carly Simon – “You’re So Vain”
In November of 1972, Carly Simon released her third album, and it was intended to be her big commercial breakthrough. No Secrets spent five weeks at No. 1 on the US Billboard 200 chart and quickly achieved gold status.
It was a great album that spread all over the world, spending weeks and weeks on the top of the charts in countries like Norway, Australia and Canada. But it was one song in particular – the third on the album – that would change her life forever.
You’re So Vain was the song that most people reference when talking of Carly Simon. It was a smash-hit right away, and throughout the years, it’s grown even bigger and bigger.
The song is currently ranked at No. 92 on Billboard‘s Greatest Songs of All-Time list. In 2014, it was voted as number as no 216 when Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) asked the question of the best songs of the century. That same year, it was crowned as the ultimate song of the 1970’s by the UK Official Charts Company.
The album was recorded at the famous Trident Studios in London, England, where bands like The Beatles recorded The White Album and David Bowie made Space Oddity.
You’re So Vain – recording
You’re So Vain also held plenty of secrets when it was released, and for many years it was the subject of one of rock ‘n’ roll’s biggest mysteries. But we’ll get to that soon.
Firstly, Rolling Stones frontman Mick Jagger is uncredited on the song, even though he sings on the chorus.
At the time of the recording, several other famous artists were at the Trident Studios, and the likes of Paul McCartney, Linda McCartney, legendary record producer George Martin, and Harry Nilsson watched her record. Actually, McCartney himself pitched in to guest star with background vocals.
And then there was Mick Jagger. Carly Simon wrote in her memoir that he actually invited himself to the recording. Jagger had pursued her in London and called Trident Studios once he understood she was there.
“It was shortly after midnight. Mick and I, we were close together – the same height, same coloring, same lips,” Simon writes.
“I felt as if I was trying to stay within a pink gravity that was starting to loosen its silky grip on me. I was thrilled by the proximity, remembering all the times I had spent imitating him in front of my closet mirror.”
As mentioned, You’re So Vain was a rock ‘n’ roll mystery. It’s always fun to know the background story of a song, wether its about a certain event, a person, or if that one line is a reference for something special.
You’re So Vain – who is it about?
In Carly Simon’s case, no one knew who You’re So Vain was about.
Some guessed – and had conspiracy theories – that the song was about Mick Jagger. Sure, there was a pretty clear connection between the two, especially since he actually sang on the record.
But no, it turns out the rumours were wrong. The truth is that You’re So Vain – at least the second verse – is about one-time Hollywood lothario Warren Beatty, whom she dated briefly in the early 1970’s.
“You had me several years ago when I was still quite naive.
Well you said that we made such a pretty pair.
And that you would never leave.
But you gave away the things you loved and one of them was me.
I had some dreams, they were clouds in my coffee.
Clouds in my coffee”.
In her memoir, Carly revealed that the song was also about two other people, but she won’t reveal who they were.
“I don’t think so,” she told People. “At least until they know it’s about them.”
“Probably, if we were sitting over at dinner and I said: ‘remember that time you walked into the party and…’ I don’t know if I’ll do it. I never thought I would admit that it was more than one person.”
Simon dated Warren Beatty for a short while in the ’70s, and described him as a “glorious specimen” who put all other men “to shame, if looks and charm were what you were after.”
Carly Simon – James Taylor
So what about Carly Simon’s love life besides Warren? Well, she’s been married once, to singer/songwriter James Taylor.
They had met briefly as children, and then again in her dressing room in 1971. She described the latter meeting in her book. Taylor was there together with his then-girlfriend Joni Mitchell.
“He was barefoot, long-legged, long-footed – and is knees were bent,” she wrote in her memoir.
”He wore dark red, loose, wide-wale corduroys and a long-sleeved Henley with one button open, his right hand clutching a self-rule cigarette. His hair, simultaneously shiny and disheveled, fell evenly on both sides of his head, and he wore a scruffy, understated mustache, the kind so fashionable back in the yearly 1970s. He seemed both kempt and unkempt. Even sprawled out on the floor, everything about him communicated that he was, in fact, the center of something – the core of an apple, the center of a note.”
Carly Simon and James Taylor started dating later the same year and tied the knot in November of 1972. 11 years later, the couple divorced, but it wasn’t just because they didn’t have the same love for each other anymore.
Carly Simon – children
Simon explained that it mostly had to do with drugs. They had two children, now grown up and working in the music business. Daughter Sally Taylor is 46 years old and Ben Taylor’s 43.
Her memoir Boys in the Trees pretty much ends with her marriage to James Taylor. Her son hasn’t read the book. But her daughter has.
“I think he would feel more conflicted than Sally did,” Simon told ABC in 2016. “I had told her almost everything, but when she read it all together, she was just so amazed. She said, ‘I’m so proud of you for being able to tell it like it is for you.’”
Carly Simon was later engaged to musician Russ Kunkel in 1985. She married writer James Hart in December 1987, but the couple divorced in 2007.
Carly Simon, now 75 years of age, continued making music for many years to come. And, as a by-product, continued to win several awards for her trophy cabinet.
Her 1977 worldwide hit Nobody Does It Better was the theme song of the Bond movie The Spy Who Loved Me. It’s considered by many to be one of the greatest Bond anthems of all time.
Hall of Fame entry
In 1988, she released the song Let The River Run, first featured in the 1988 movie Working Girl. With the song, she became the first singer ever to win three major awards for a single track: an Academy Award, a Grammy and a Golden Globe.
Six years later, in 1994, Carly was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame.
Carly Simon lived a happy life during the 1960s and 1970s. She sure is a legendary singer with a legacy that will live on forever.
Thank you for all the wonderful music, Carly, and we hope to hear more in the future.
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