Man Kicks Out Brother After He Brought His Kids to His Wedding – Story of the Day

I kicked my brother out of the wedding hall after he went against my decision and brought his kids to the wedding. But I’m not ashamed of it. I think it was the right decision.

My wife, Laura, and I got married days ago, and we had decided to keep the wedding children-free. To be honest, I thought that was the best decision. So when I was sending out the invites, I made sure the message was clear to everyone.

To some extent, I was sure that everyone would respect my decision and won’t bring their kids to the wedding. But there was one person I wasn’t sure of, and that was my 36-year-old brother David.

David got married at a young age and has four kids. Like every parent, those kids mean the world to him, so he takes them everywhere he and his wife go.

And trust me when I say that the kids are with him everywhere because I hadn’t witnessed even one family event in twenty-eight years of my life when David and his wife attended an event without them.

So, unlike other guests, I gave the wedding invite to him in person and even read it out loud to make sure David didn’t miss the little note at the bottom. “Kids are not allowed. Sorry for the inconvenience,” I finished reading.

“Child-free, huh?” David added in a sarcastic tone.

“Well, yeah. I think that’s the best decision!” I replied instantly.

David glared at me. “Are you out of your mind, Richard? My kids have never been excluded from any event, big or small, let alone their own uncle’s wedding!”

Ramsey seemed upset when I told him kids weren’t allowed | Photo: Pexels

“I’m sorry, David,” I said after a little pause, “but it’s already been decided, and everyone has to follow the rules!”

David didn’t say anything after that. I thought he was pissed at me, so I was about to apologize again, but then he spoke up. “I get it, man, no children means no children, no worries. I won’t bring my kids!”

I was relieved David didn’t get into a fight about it and seemed to accept the rule. However, I had a hard time believing he would agree to my request so quickly. Who’d have guessed my suspicions would turn out to be true?

A week later, the wedding day came. Almost everyone in the family arrived except David and his wife. I began thinking David was furious with me because I had refused to let him bring his children to the wedding.

So I decided to phone him and apologize. But just as I was about to dial the number, my best man informed me that David and his children had arrived.

I was burning with anger, and I went straight to meet him at the entrance. I greeted the kids and asked my sister-in-law to take them back to the car. When they left, I lashed out at David.

I stopped Ramsey at the entrance | Photo: Pexels

I stopped Ramsey at the entrance | Photo: Pexels

“You can’t enter, David,” I said. “Kids are not allowed in here!”

“Calm down, Richard,” David retorted. “It’s not like your wedding will be ruined because of my kids. Why are you acting like that?”

I was furious. “Acting like that?! Didn’t I tell you about it before?”

“You did, Richard, but I didn’t think you were serious. They’re just kids, after all. You’re not going to kick me out of the hall just because I didn’t follow the rules, right?” David responded.

“Well, I can. GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE, David! ” I yelled at the top of my voice.

David looked at me angrily. “You’re a lunatic, I swear. I mean, who does that to their brother?”

“I don’t want to explain anything to you now. Please leave!” I almost yelled at him.

I kicked Ramsey out of the wedding hall | Photo: Unsplash

I kicked Ramsey out of the wedding hall | Photo: Unsplash

“You know what, Richard? You’re an awful uncle and brother for sure, but you’re a simp too! I’m sure it’s your lovely Laura who has brainwashed you like this! If I were in your place, I wouldn’t have married a pathetic woman!” David said and walked away.

I was even more enraged by David’s snide remarks about Laura, and I wanted to stop him and lash out at him once more. However, our last quarrel was humiliating and loud enough for all guests, including my in-laws, to gaze at us.

My mother had to step in to calm the situation by persuading me to let it go and invite David and his family to the wedding. But I stood firm in my refusal. I was adamant about my decision and paid no attention to what others had to say.

But since that day, everyone hated me and sided with David, claiming I betrayed him and his family by acting coldly towards them when all they wanted to do was celebrate the occasion with my wife and me.

I am sad that everyone in the family hates me | Photo: Pexels

I am sad that everyone in the family hates me | Photo: Pexels

My father was furious with me for potentially and permanently destroying my relationship with David, his wife, and their children by excluding them from my wedding. David will never forget that day, he said. But first, let me explain why I did it.

I used to work for Laura’s dad’s company. He and his wife tragically died in a car accident. I was just one of the employees attending the funeral when I saw Laura for the first time.

A few days after the funeral, as I was on my way to the cabin, I met Laura at the office. She had come to collect some documents.

When I saw her, all I could think of was how sad she was during the funeral. So I asked her if she was doing well. I don’t know why but after talking to her that day, I felt like I wanted to learn more about her.

Luckily, we began meeting each other often, especially after Laura took over her dad’s position and came to the office every day. And before we realized it, we were in love.

I fell in love with Clara at the first sight | Photo: Pexels

I fell in love with Clara at the first sight | Photo: Pexels

Laura had returned to regular life somehow, but her trauma from her parents’ death remained severe, and she was undergoing treatment for that. Laura’s therapist had warned me not to do anything that might cause her mental distress.

We had gone to see a gynecologist just a few weeks before the wedding because Laura wanted to talk about her health issues and see if there would be any complications with her pregnancy. Sadly, it turned out that Laura could never become a mother.

If Laura knew this, she wouldn’t be able to bear it because she wanted to give birth and have a family. So I decided to hide the truth from her until her therapist gave me the green light. But Laura learned about it, and as I had expected, she was devastated.

I decided not to allow children to attend our wedding because I knew Laura would be even more upset if she saw them. She had even planned a court wedding because she didn’t want such a lavish wedding after receiving the sad news. But I knew she always wanted the wedding to be like this since she talked about it from the beginning of our relationship.

Clara was devastated when she learned she couldn't give birth | Photo: Pexels

Clara was devastated when she learned she couldn’t give birth | Photo: Pexels

Yes, I could have told my brother the real reason, but trust me, he’s not good with secrets, and my family is such that if people knew Laura was taking therapy sessions and now couldn’t become a mother, they wouldn’t accept our relationship. So I think what I did was right.

You can hate me for what I did, but I love Laura, and I will do anything to keep her happy.

What can we learn from this story?

  • Sometimes you have to lose something to gain something. Richard ruined his relationship with his brother because he wanted to save Laura from further depression.
  • If you love someone, you stay with them through the good and bad. Just as Richard stayed by Laura’s side every time.

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Am I Right for Not Inviting My Sister to My Wedding after She Ruined My Proposal?

Jake’s dream proposal to Emma was ruined when his sister, Lisa, hijacked the moment with drunken antics and snarky comments. Now, as their wedding day approaches, Jake faces a family feud over the decision to exclude Lisa, leaving him to question if he’s justified in protecting their special day.

I had always imagined my wedding day as perfect. But now, I faced a dilemma. My sister, who ruined my proposal, was not invited. My family was angry. Was I wrong?

A frustrated man | Source: Pexels

A frustrated man | Source: Pexels

My name is Jake, and I’m 29. My girlfriend, Emma, and I have been together for three years. We met at a coffee shop, and it was love at first sight. She is kind, smart, and beautiful. I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. So, I planned a special proposal.

I wanted the proposal to be unforgettable. I chose the beach where we had our first date. It was secluded and romantic. I decorated the spot with flowers and fairy lights and hired a violinist to play our favorite song. And, I bought fireworks to light up the night sky.

Beach at night | Source: Pexels

Beach at night | Source: Pexels

On the day of the proposal, I was excited and nervous. Everything was perfect. I couldn’t wait to see the look on Emma’s face.

As we walked to the beach, I held Emma’s hand. She had no idea what was about to happen.

“This walk is so nice,” Emma said, smiling up at me.

“Yeah, it is,” I replied, my heart racing.

Emma on the beach | Source: Midjourney

Emma on the beach | Source: Midjourney

Just then, I saw my sister, Lisa, approaching us. I was shocked.

“Lisa, what are you doing here?” I asked, trying to hide my surprise.

“Hey, Jake! I thought I’d tag along and take some candid photos for you guys,” she said, holding up her camera.

“Uh, I don’t think that’s a good idea,” I said, feeling uneasy.

A woman with a camera | Source: Pexels

A woman with a camera | Source: Pexels

“Come on, it’ll be fun,” Lisa insisted.

Reluctantly, I agreed. As we reached the beach, Lisa started acting strange. She made snarky comments and tried to direct everything.

“Jake, move a little to the left,” she said, waving her hand.

“Lisa, stop. You’re ruining the moment,” I whispered.

Woman takes a photo on the beach | Source: Pexels

Woman takes a photo on the beach | Source: Pexels

“Relax, I’m just helping,” she replied, rolling her eyes.

Emma looked confused. “Is everything okay?” she asked.

“Yeah, everything’s fine,” I said, trying to keep calm.

But then, Lisa did something unforgivable. She grabbed the ring box from my pocket and shouted, “Surprise! Look what he’s going to do!”

Lisa stole the box from Jake | Source: Midjourney

Lisa stole the box from Jake | Source: Midjourney

Emma’s eyes widened in shock. “Jake, is this…?”

I nodded, feeling my heart sink. The moment was ruined.

“Lisa, what the hell?” I shouted, furious.

“Oh, come on, Jake. It was just a joke,” Lisa said, laughing.

Shocked happy woman | Source: Pexels

Shocked happy woman | Source: Pexels

I turned to Emma, who looked hurt and disappointed. “I’m so sorry, Emma. This wasn’t how it was supposed to be.”

Emma and I tried to salvage the proposal, but the magic was gone. She said yes, but it wasn’t the moment we had both dreamed of.

Later that night, I confronted Lisa.

An angry man | Source: Pexels

An angry man | Source: Pexels

“You ruined everything,” I said, anger boiling inside me.

“Don’t be so dramatic, Jake. I was just trying to help,” she said, shrugging.

“Help? You call that help? You embarrassed me and ruined a special moment,” I replied, my voice shaking.

“You’re overreacting. It’s not a big deal,” Lisa said dismissively.

A laughing woman | Source: Pexels

A laughing woman | Source: Pexels

Planning the wedding was supposed to be a joyful time for Emma and me. After the proposal fiasco, we agreed on one thing: we wanted our wedding to be drama-free. This meant not inviting my sister, Lisa.

“Jake, we can’t risk her ruining our day,” Emma said one evening as we discussed the guest list.

“I know. I just don’t want any more chaos,” I replied, feeling a knot in my stomach.

A couple has a serious talk | Source: Pexels

A couple has a serious talk | Source: Pexels

When we told my parents, their reaction was immediate and intense.

“How can you not invite your own sister?” my mom exclaimed, her face red with anger.

“She ruined the proposal, Mom. We don’t want a repeat performance,” I tried to explain.

“She’s family, Jake. You’re being heartless,” my dad chimed in.

A disapproving elderly man | Source: Pexels

A disapproving elderly man | Source: Pexels

Lisa, of course, played the victim.

“You’re tearing this family apart over a little joke,” she said, tears streaming down her face. “I just wanted to help.”

Despite the backlash, Emma and I stood firm. We deserved a special day without any disruptions.

Crying woman | Source: Pexels

Crying woman | Source: Pexels

The day of the wedding arrived, and everything was going smoothly. Emma looked stunning in her dress, and I couldn’t wait to say “I do.” The ceremony was set on the beach, just like our first date.

As we exchanged vows, I noticed a commotion near the back. To my horror, Lisa had shown up, uninvited and clearly drunk.

“Jake! Emma! I’m here to celebrate!” she slurred, stumbling toward us.

Shocked guests at the wedding | Source: Midjourney

Shocked guests at the wedding | Source: Midjourney

The guests whispered and stared. Emma’s face turned pale. I couldn’t believe this was happening.

“Lisa, you need to leave,” I said firmly, stepping in front of her.

“Why? I’m your sister. I deserve to be here,” she shouted, drawing more attention.

“You’re causing a scene. Please, just go,” I insisted.

Jake stands in Lisa's way | Source: Midjourney

Jake stands in Lisa’s way | Source: Midjourney

She ignored me and continued to make a spectacle. “Everyone, let’s toast to the happy couple!” she yelled, raising an empty glass.

I had no choice. I signaled the security we had hired for the event. They escorted her out, much to her protest.

“Jake, you’re making a mistake! This is my family too!” she screamed as they led her away.

A screaming woman | Source: Pexels

A screaming woman | Source: Pexels

Once she was gone, the ceremony resumed. Emma and I exchanged rings and shared our first kiss as husband and wife. Despite the earlier disruption, the rest of the day was filled with joy and love.

Looking back, I still feel conflicted about how everything unfolded. Was I right to exclude my sister? Could I have handled it differently? My parents are still upset, and Lisa continues to act like the victim.

Angry middle aged man | Source: Pexels

Angry middle aged man | Source: Pexels

“Jake, did we do the right thing?” Emma asked me as we relaxed after the wedding.

“I think we did. We needed to protect our day,” I replied, though doubt lingered in my mind.

What do you think? Was I justified in my decision to keep our wedding day special, and free from drama? Or should family always come first, no matter the circumstances?

Man deep in thought | Source: Pexels

Man deep in thought | Source: Pexels

In the end, weddings are about love and commitment. Sometimes, tough decisions have to be made to preserve the happiness of the couple. Family dynamics are complex, and it’s not always easy to balance everyone’s feelings. But when it comes to such a significant day, ensuring it remains about the couple is paramount.

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