I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.
I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
The Poignant Reason Why Kate Middleton’s Surgery Is Kept Secret
Buckingham Palace shared information regarding the medical procedures undergone by King Charles and Kate Middleton, yet they employed different approaches. Regarding King Charles, the announcement preceded his operation, while for Kate, it was delayed until after her surgery. Insider sources suggest a deliberate decision behind this disparate timing strategy.
According to a palace insider, “It was sensible to be more open about it, as otherwise, people might have thought the worst.”
The official statement emphasized King Charles’s desire to address his diagnosis openly to destigmatize seeking treatment. T
his strategy appears effective, with reports indicating a substantial 1,000% surge in individuals accessing information about prostate enlargement on the U.K.’s National Health Service website following the king’s disclosure.
The rationale behind informing the public about King Charles’ medical procedure beforehand was to avoid rumors and soothe concerns. Opting for transparency aimed to foster a supportive atmosphere.
Conversely, the decision to withhold news about Kate’s surgery until after the procedure was made to afford her privacy during the process.
This meticulous decision-making process also took into account the nature of the surgeries and the public perception of King Charles and Kate Middleton. Through this approach, Buckingham Palace effectively disseminated information while upholding privacy, consequently stimulating increased public engagement in health discussions.
Princess Kate underwent a procedure concerning her abdominal area. According to a royal insider, she is reported to be “doing well.” Her hospital stay is expected to span between 10 to 14 days, followed by a three-month recovery period at home. While the palace did not disclose specific details regarding the condition, they did confirm it is not cancer-related.
In a message shared by the palace, Kate expressed gratitude for the public’s concern. She emphasized her desire for a sense of normalcy for her children and requested that her health-related information remain private.
Céline Dion is another beloved public figure who has been struggling with her health lately. A few months ago, the star’s sister shared updates about her health as fans were deeply concerned.
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