Making the heart-wrenching decision to take a loved one off life support is one of the most difficult choices anyone could face, especially when the prognosis is grim.
Ryan Finley was confronted with this agonizing choice when his wife, Jill, slipped into a coma. It began when Ryan found her unresponsive, not breathing. He acted quickly, performing CPR and praying fervently as he awaited paramedics, despite understanding that her chances were slim.
Although paramedics managed to revive Jill, her heart was weak, and her breathing was labored. She was rushed to the Oklahoma Heart Hospital, where doctors placed her in a cooling suit to prevent further brain damage. However, she remained in a coma.
Ryan held onto hope, praying daily, but as weeks passed, doctors told him Jill’s chances of recovery were nearly nonexistent. Heartbroken, he was asked to consider taking her off life support.
In his diary, Ryan recorded his devastation. “Today could be the worst day of my life. I essentially have to decide whether or not she will die,” he wrote. Imagining what Jill would want, he felt she wouldn’t want to live like that, so he made the agonizing decision.
As family members gathered to say their final goodbyes, the machines were turned off. But Jill didn’t pass right away; doctors explained that her body was in a “last rally” phase.
In that moment, Jill began to murmur. To Ryan’s amazement, she spoke, telling him to get her out of there and suggesting they go to the Melting Pot or Ted’s, two of her favorite Mexican restaurants.
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Ryan’s hope surged, and, against all odds, he believed Jill would recover. He was right. Jill began breathing on her own, later undergoing heart surgery and rehabilitation.
Reflecting on her experience, Jill shared that she had no memory of the coma but struggled with short-term memory and a few speech issues. Otherwise, she felt well and was grateful for the second chance at life.
Now, Ryan and Jill cherish every moment together, stronger than ever. “We cherish each day, each minute, each hour now,” Jill told TODAY. “Not that we didn’t before, but it puts everything in perspective.”
This incredible story reminds us of the power of hope and resilience.
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When Daniel noticed his elderly neighbor, Mrs. Carrino, arguing with her son about her garden, he decided to step in and offer his help, not knowing that this small act of kindness would lead to an unexpected and life-changing discovery.
As Daniel rode past her charming house, he overheard a heated argument. “I can’t come here every day to water your plants! If you gave me the house, I’d do it!” a man shouted angrily. Daniel slowed down, curious, and saw Mrs. Carrino and her son, Arnold, in the middle of a disagreement.
“All you care about is the house! You just want to sell it after I’m gone!” Mrs. Carrino responded, clearly upset.
Arnold stormed off, leaving his mother frustrated and alone. That’s when she noticed Daniel standing nearby.
“Oh, you’re Caroline’s boy, right? What brings you here?” she asked.
“I heard the shouting and wanted to make sure you were alright,” Daniel replied.
With a sigh, Mrs. Carrino explained that she was moving to a nursing home and had asked Arnold to help, but all he seemed concerned about was inheriting her house. “He didn’t even want to help with the garden,” she added.
Without hesitation, Daniel offered to help. “I can water your plants for you, Mrs. Carrino,” he said with a smile.
She gave him a warm smile, clearly touched by his offer. “That’s so kind of you, but I can’t pay you, dear.”
“It’s no trouble. I live just down the street,” Daniel assured her.
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