Raising children these days can be a task on its own. Young parents don’t just have to hear opinions from family members but also have to put up with random strangers on the internet commenting on their parenting methods.
Jordan Driskell is a young father of five quintuplets. His quintuplets happen to be 5 years old. As you can imagine, looking after 5 children who are the same age can be quite taxing. Especially at 5-years-old when a child is curious and likes to explore.
31-year-old dad, Jordan Driskell decided to find a creative solution to his problem. He bought leashes meant for children to control his rambunctuous little kids when they are in public together.
In the past, Driskell had a 6-seat stroller that they used for their big family. However, that grew tiresome very quickly because the kids would be bothered when inside it. The stroller was also incredibly inconvenient to take anywhere.
This helps the little kids get to wander and explore their surroundings when the family goes out without their dad losing sight or control of them and hence keep them safe!
Driskell posted a video of the family’s outing to the acquarium that caused a lot of negative feedback directed towards the parents. The video of the kids on leashes went viral with over 3 million views. Hundreds of people commented about how the children were not animals and hence should not have been leashed.
Others commented, “If you can’t manage the pressure, don’t have so many kids.”
Other offered disdain masked as advice, “Can’t you just properly train your children?” Discuss to them why fleeing is risky.”
Dr. Deborah Gilboa, an expert in parenting and adolescent development had a different opinion. She does not think a leash will make your child think they are an animal. And if the alternative to a leash is to stay at home, then of course, the leash is a much better option!
Dr. Gilboa said a leash is a great tool for younger children or neuro-diverse children to be controlled in a public environment. However, she said that if a neurotypical child is not off a leash by the age of eight and nine, and hence has not developed their listening skills, that might be troublesome.
By then, parents should be able to effectively communicate with children verbally instead of relying on tools like leashes.
Parents should have the freedom to parent the way they want without facing unneccesary judgement from society.
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All my left socks kept disappearing—when I found out why, my heart nearly stopped.
The Mystery of My Missing Socks Led to a Heartwarming Surprise
At first, I thought it was just one of those things—socks disappearing in the laundry. Everyone jokes about dryers “eating” them, right?
But something felt off. It wasn’t random pairs going missing; it was always one sock from several pairs.
As a single dad raising my son, Dylan, in a quiet home without many visitors, I started to wonder—was he somehow behind this? But why on earth would he need only one sock from each pair? It didn’t make sense.
Curiosity got the best of me, so I set up an old nanny cam in the laundry room, determined to catch the culprit.
The next morning, as I sipped my coffee and reviewed the footage, I nearly spilled my cup all over the keyboard.
There was Dylan, sneaking into the laundry room, carefully selecting a sock from my newest pair, tucking it into his school bag, then putting on his coat and heading out the door.
I had to know what he was up to.
So, I decided to follow him.
Dylan walked towards a part of town I rarely drove through—a struggling neighborhood with rundown houses. He stopped in front of one of them and knocked confidently, as if he had done it countless times before.
I kept my distance, watching as an elderly man in a wheelchair answered the door.
Then, I heard my son’s voice:
“I got you some new fancy socks!”
I must have shifted my weight because at that moment, both Dylan and the old man turned to look at me.
“Dad, I can explain,” Dylan said quickly, worried I might be upset.
But I wasn’t. I was just trying to piece together what I had just witnessed.
The old man wheeled closer, smiling warmly. “You must be Dennis. Your son has been making sure my leg stays warm on these cold days.”
That’s when I noticed—he only had one leg.
A former Navy officer, he had lost touch with his family when his children moved abroad, leaving him alone.
One day, Dylan had met him by chance while walking to school, and from that moment on, he made sure the man was never without a warm sock for his foot.
“Are you mad, Dad?” Dylan asked hesitantly.
I shook my head, overwhelmed with pride. “No, son. I’m just really proud of you.”
From that day forward, Dylan and I visited the old man regularly, helping him with errands and keeping him company.
A few missing socks had led to a beautiful friendship.
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