Each pregnancy alters your body irrevocably. And we don’t mean the stretch marks or the scars. We mean the forever-changed DNA. Ask any new mother and she’ll list out a litany of things that are now different for her. Like a forgetful mommy brain that, according to science, makes the mother-child bond stronger.
We at Bright Side salute all moms and believe that they are real-life superheroes. To honor all mothers, we found some mommy facts proving there’s nothing like a mother’s love. Or the science behind it.
1. Motherhood changes you, and your DNA.
A chimera is a legendary beast made of different animals. And we are likening mothers to chimeras because every child that a mother carries leaves their DNA inside her. Basically, fetal cells enter a mother’s bloodstream and stay in her body forever. Researchers allege that these cells can affect the mother both positively and negatively. On one hand, it can speed up healing but on the flip side, it can increase the risk of cancer.
So when they say motherhood changes you, it does so at an elemental level as well. Jennifer Garner’s stunning countenance reflects just that.
2. The baby can taste what their mother eats.
Studies show that what a mother eats flavors the amniotic fluid. Something a baby gulps down several times a day. Basically, a baby can taste what their mother eats from within the womb.
A study showed that infants whose mothers ate carrots while pregnant seemed to enjoy cereal prepared with carrot juice more than others. So if you want to develop your baby’s palate for healthy, crunchy veggies, chow down on them while you are pregnant.
3. Kissing babies is more “healing” than we think.
Any new mom will tell you that the urge to kiss a newborn is intense. It’s innate and biological in nature. And science says that when mothers kiss their babies, it’s not just love, it’s medicine.
A mother’s body samples the pathogens found on the baby’s face, and more magic happens within her own body. Especially to her breastmilk, the main source of nutrition and immunity for the baby.
4. Pregnant women make enormous amounts of estrogen.
Pregnancy sends a woman’s body into overdrive. The uterus expands to 500 times its normal size and then shrinks back after birth. The blood volume increases and to tackle that, the heart expands a little too.
And it’s not just this, a woman makes more estrogen in a single pregnancy than she would in her whole lifetime if she never got pregnant. There’s a reason why women are exhausted when expecting and need sleep and rest for a healthy delivery and recovery.
5. A mother’s smile is near magical.
Moms are near magic, and so is their smile or affection. While you need your mother at all ages, it’s the helpless infant who is most dependent on their mom.
Studies show that when mothers smile, coo, and show affection to their babies, their heartbeats synchronize into the same beat. So if a baby is distressed, it calms them down. This is the reason why newborns need mothers the most when they are fussy and refuse to be calmed down by other family members.
6. Carrying boys can make you more nauseous.
There’s a reason why little boys are made of “snips and snails and puppy dog tails” or so goes the nursery rhyme. This is because mothers who carry boys are more likely to be nauseous in the first and second trimesters, a study shows.
This is not to say that women expecting girls cannot have morning sickness or that all women who carry boys have more nausea. It’s just that if you are expecting a boy, chances are you may experience more nausea or food aversions.
7. Babies name their mamas.
“Mom, mama, mummy, mamma, ammi, ma, me, emi, mimi.” There’s a pattern in the name for mother in all languages and this is because the “em” sounds are usually the first vocalization for a baby. It’s also the easiest sound a baby can make while babbling. And so it’s our babies who name us and call us mamas.
8. The mommy brain fog is very real.
If you see new moms looking lost, there’s a scientific reason for this. Each pregnancy affects a woman’s brain and makes her lose gray matter. The effects last for around 2 years. Science says that this temporary bewilderment makes mothers closer to their babies as well.
That said, the gray matter regenerates and any confusion or forgetfulness is passing. The bond between a mother and her child is permanent.
9. A mother’s voice is as soothing as a hug.
A study has shown that a mother’s voice, even on the telephone, is as calming as a hug. Researchers introduced stress to a group of girls and then had 1/3 of them hug their mothers, another 1/3 of them talk to their mothers, and 1/3 watched an emotionally neutral film. The girls who spoke to their mothers calmed down much faster, just like those who hugged.
This proves that if you are under stress, your mother’s voice can flood oxytocin into your bloodstream, making you feel better. And we think Jennifer Garner already knows that, pictured here with her mother.
10. Babies can cry in the womb.
The baby’s first cry is not post-birth, rather studies now show that they can express displeasure inside the womb. This can happen as early as 28 weeks gestation.
Researchers played low-decibel sounds on the mother’s belly and could see that the baby opened their mouth and exhibited crying-like behavior. But it’s a silent cry. Researchers also added that this in-vitro crying was nothing the mother should worry about.
11. Pregnancies leave women vulnerable to tooth decay.
Pregnant women are at risk for tooth decay and there are many reasons why. The changes in diet due to cravings may give some women a sweet tooth and the hormones that cause nausea, meaning more acidity on your mouth, to mention a few. This leads to gum disease and decay.
A simple way to prevent it all is by making oral health a priority, especially when you are pregnant.
12. The earliest milk bottle use came to be 7,000 years ago.
As it turns out, the breast/bottle debate is prehistoric. And mamas back then were pretty innovative too. Researchers have found little clay vessels, some shaped into mythical animals with hands and feet, with milk residue in them.
The earliest of them date back to 7,000 years ago and have been identified as prehistoric feeding bottles for babies. The dairy residue has been identified as breastmilk and milk from a cow, sheep, or goat.
13. The Ice Age made human breast milk more nutritious.
Human beings need sunlight to survive because our bodies only synthesize vitamin D in the sun. Allegedly, the last Ice Age should have wiped us out because newborns were not getting any vitamin D, considering the intense cold and lack of sunshine.
Scientists believe that a genetic tweak happened and mothers could transmit vitamin D and essential fatty acids to their newborn babies, and this may have ensured human survival.
14. Pregnancies can be contagious.
A study of more than 30,000 women conducted in Germany has indicated that pregnancy is contagious. It spreads from woman to woman in workplaces, in an endearing way. The results stated that “in the year after a colleague gives birth, transition rates to first pregnancies double.”
So if you are in the workplace and someone is pregnant, expect more pregnancies to pop up.
15. Most mammal moms carry their babies on the left.
Human mothers and even some mammal mamas cradle their babies on the left side of their bodies, closer to their heart. This is irrespective of a left-handed or right-handed mom. Science says that all the sensory information that comes from the left side of the body is processed on the right side of the brain.
The right side is where all the emotions are. And surprisingly enough, babies prefer to keep their moms on their left side as well, so it works for both mom and babe.
Bonus: Celebrity moms speak about motherhood.
Rosie Huntington-Whiteley
“I did start to feel this new sense of life. And now my confidence is so much greater.”
Lauren Burnham Luyendyk
“Breastfeeding is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. I’m in awe of the ladies that make it look so effortless, and even the ones who don’t, you are superheroes.”
Do you have any other experiences as a child or a mother that show us that moms are actual superhumans? Share your motherhood stories with us and spread the joy.
Please note: This article was updated in June 2022 to correct source material and factual inaccuracies.
Preview photo credit laurenluyendyk / Instagram
Bullied Guy Planned a Class Reunion on His Yacht – The Party Was Great until He Pulled out a 10-Year-Old Video
The class reunion on Mark’s yacht seemed like a dream come true until he fired up a video projector. As familiar faces from our past flickered across the screen, I realized this wasn’t a celebration — it was a reckoning, and we were trapped miles from shore.
I stared at the invitation in my hand, feeling a knot in my stomach. Mark, the kid we used to torment in high school, was throwing a class reunion on his yacht. Weird, right? I mean, who even owns a yacht at 28?
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“You going to that thing?” my roommate asked, peering over my shoulder.
“I guess,” I shrugged. “Might as well see how everyone turned out.”
The afternoon of the party, I showed up in my best shirt, trying to look like I had my life together. As I stepped onto the yacht, I whistled. This thing was nicer than my entire apartment.
“Nick! You made it!” Mark’s voice boomed across the deck.
I turned and my jaw dropped. Gone was the chubby, brace-faced kid we used to pick on. In his place stood a confident, fit guy in an expensive suit.
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“Mark? Holy moly, man. You look… different,” I stammered.
He laughed, clapping me on the back. “Amazing what a decade and a few million dollars can do, right?”
As I mingled, I noticed something odd. Only a handful of people from our class were here. Mostly the popular crowd — or should I say, the mean crowd.
Amy, the queen bee, sauntered over. “Can you believe this? Guess karma doesn’t exist after all.”
I forced a smile, but something felt off. Why would Mark invite his former bullies to this swanky party?
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“Nick, my man!” Chris, our old quarterback, stumbled over with a drink in hand. “Can you believe Marky Mark pulled this off? Who’d have thought the little nerd had it in him?”
I winced at his words. “Come on, Chris. That was a long time ago.”
“What? I’m complimenting the guy!” Chris defended, but his tone was still mocking.
As the party went on and we ventured further out to sea, I kept getting flashes of high school. Shoving Mark into lockers. Laughing as he ate lunch alone. God, we were such jerks.
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“Having fun?” A guy with curly hair and glasses appeared next to me.
“Uh, yeah. I’m Nick. You are…?”
“Ben. Mark’s friend from high school.” His tone was cold.
“Oh, cool. I don’t remember you,” I said, trying to be friendly.
Ben’s eyes narrowed. “Yeah, you wouldn’t. I was the only one who was nice to Mark back then.”
Before I could respond, Mark clinked his glass. “Everyone! If I could have your attention please!”
The music faded and Mark moved to the front of the deck. A projector screen lowered behind him.
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“I’m so glad you all could make it today,” he began, a weird smirk on his face. “I thought we could take a little trip down memory lane.”
The screen flickered to life and my blood ran cold. It was us. In high school. Tormenting Mark.
“Oh dear,” Amy whispered beside me.
We watched in horror as scene after scene played out. Us calling Mark names. Pushing him around. Laughing as he cried.
When it ended, Mark just stood there, letting the silence hang heavy.
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“You all remember those days, right?” he finally said. “Well, I haven’t forgotten either.”
Suddenly, the yacht’s engine roared to life. Panic set in as I realized we were moving further away from shore.
“What the hell, Mark?” Chris yelled, his earlier bravado gone.
Mark’s smile never wavered. “Don’t worry. I’m not going to hurt you. I just thought you all might enjoy a taste of isolation. Like I did.”
“This is insane,” Sophia cried. “I’m calling the police!”
“Good luck,” Mark chuckled. “No signal out here.” He shrugged off his jacket and held up a cocktail mockingly.
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For the next hour, Mark went person by person, recounting every cruel thing we’d ever done to him. It was excruciating.
“Amy,” he said, turning to her. “Remember when you started that rumor about me having lice? I had to change schools for a month.”
Amy’s face crumpled. “I… I didn’t think…”
“Of course you didn’t,” Mark cut her off. “None of you did.”
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He turned to Chris next. “And you, Mr. Big Shot Quarterback. Remember dunking my head in the toilet every day for a week?”
Chris looked like he might be sick. “Come on, man. That was just locker room stuff…”
“Was it?” Mark’s voice was ice cold. “Because it felt like torture to me.”
“Mark, come on,” Ben said softly. “This isn’t what we talked about.”
Wait, what? Ben was in on this?
“Shut up, Ben,” Mark snapped. “They need to understand.”
I couldn’t take it anymore. “Mark, stop! We get it, okay? What we did was awful. I’m sorry. I’m so, so sorry.”
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The yacht fell silent. Mark stared at me, his expression unreadable.
“You’re sorry?” he asked quietly.
I nodded, feeling tears prick my eyes. “We were stupid kids. But that’s no excuse. What we did to you was cruel and you didn’t deserve any of it. I’m sorry, man. I really am.”
For a moment, Mark’s tough facade cracked. He looked… surprised.
“Nick,” he said slowly. “Do you remember the day you stole my clothes during gym class?”
I flinched at the memory. “Yeah. I do.”
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“I had to wear my gym shorts all day. Everyone laughed.”
“I know,” I said, my voice breaking. “It was an awful thing to do. I’ve felt guilty about it for years.”
Mark studied me for a long moment. “You have?”
Amy stepped forward, mascara streaking her cheeks. “I’m sorry too. Wow, I was such a cow back then.”
“We all were,” Sophia added quietly. “Mark, what we did… it was unforgivable.”
One by one, everyone started apologizing. Even Chris, who’d always been the worst, looked ashamed.
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“I… I didn’t expect this,” Mark admitted, his voice shaky.
Ben put a hand on his shoulder. “Maybe it’s time to head back, buddy.”
Mark nodded slowly. “Yeah. Maybe it is.”
We all stood in awkward silence. The sun was just starting to set, painting the sky in pinks and oranges.
“I forgive you,” Mark said quietly. “I just needed you to understand. To remember.”
We nodded, no one quite sure what to say. By this point, we were close to a small island. Someone had popped a bottle of champagne and handed it round in an attempt to break the silence.
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“So,” Chris ventured after a while. “You’re like, some big shot IT guy now?”
Mark chuckled. “Yeah, I guess you could say that. Started my own cybersecurity firm a few years back.”
“That’s awesome, man,” I said sincerely. “You always were the smartest kid in class.”
“Didn’t feel that way back then,” Mark replied, but there was no bitterness in his tone now.
Amy cleared her throat. “Mark? I know we don’t deserve it, but… do you think we could start over? Maybe grab coffee sometime?”
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Mark considered this for a moment. “You know what? I’d like that. All of you,” he added, looking around. “If you want.”
Then, to everyone’s surprise, Mark’s serious expression melted into a grin. “Now that we’ve cleared the air, who’s ready for a real party?” The tension broke like a dam. Cheers erupted as Mark cranked up the music and popped open another bottle of champagne.
“Let’s moor off this little island,” he shouted over the beat. “The night’s still young!”
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As we anchored near a picturesque cove, the party kicked into high gear. But this time, it felt different. Genuine. We weren’t just former classmates pretending to like each other. We were people reconnecting, learning who we’d become.
I found myself in deep conversation with Amy about her struggles as a single mom. Chris opened up about his failed pro career and subsequent depression. Even Ben, once standoffish, shared stories of his and Mark’s friendship over the years.
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As the sun dipped below the horizon, I realized we’d be partying through the night. For the first time, I felt like I was truly getting to know these people. And them, me.
Mark raised his glass for a final toast. “To new beginnings,” he said. We clinked our glasses, no longer trapped by our past, but looking forward to the future.
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